what is the nastiest thing?

Thanks for the hugs 😘

and sending hugs to everyone else 😘 😘 😘 😘

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I also havnt had anything really bad happen.It sounds like you all have become stronger people even though nobody deserves anything bad to happen to them.

Rich you have made me cry so much.I hope one day you and your dd find each other again. 😘

My parents betraying me one time too many.

1. Wouldnt believe me when i told them i was being abused by my 1st husband, even stating that it was my fault and i deserved it. When i left him 1st time, my mother sent my dad and bro to my friend's and said if i didnt go back to my husband, i would be disowned. I went back like a fool and endured another year of abuse.

2. Labelling me a fruitcake and attention seeker when i developed postnatal depression. My mother said i 'brought it on myself'.

3. My mother writing a statement to the courts saying i was 'an unfit mother' and ' i neglected my daughter' even though before i left my 2nd husband, she said i was an excellent mother. Said i was 'too overweight' to be a good mother ( i had baby weight to lose! My mother is a large lady!)

4. at the residency hearing, she turned up at court on EX HUSBAND's side. All accusations of neglect etc were blown out the water by health professionals.

the list goes on and on but i think you get the gist of it... 😠 😠

Being abused as a child by my grans husband.

(((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))))))))) to everyone for what theyve been through xxxx

the worst thing for me was being being physically and mentally abused by my husband. i was living in a foreign country with noone to help. he said i could go back to the UK but i wasnt to take my daughter (Jami, who was 3 months old at the time) i ended up running off to a womens shelter with Jami and just the clothes on our backs. best thing i ever did

Mine was stuff in my childhood. After my mum left when I was 3 and screwed me up in the head from a young age my dad then married an alcoholic nutter who used to verbally and mentally abuse me. She'd make up lots of nasty lies(abit like Stella from EastEnders) and she'd make threats like she was going to have my dog put down which to a kid is a big thing. She'd tell me that I made my dad cry and loads of really nasty stuff. She'd do things like tickle me in the ribs then turn it into really painful digs and squeezing and then act like I was a baby for saying it hurt.
Abit further down the road(once I'd gone to live with my nan and grandad but still went to my dad's) she'd do things like when I was 13 encourage me to go and stay there for the night and bring friends and boyfriends round. She'd try and encourage me into under-age sex (which I didn't do) and all sorts and then turn it round to make my dad think I'd been up to bad stuff (which I hadn't atall). I'd also see her druggy friends with cysts on their arms from dirty needles and lots of stuff a kid just shouldn't even know about. I went through more in the first decade of my life than most people will in their entire lives but I can't think of one specific incident,it's just a whole mass of evil basically. I'm glad to say though it didn't encourage me to do bad stuff,it actually frightened me away from it and NO-ONE 😠 with me now, I'm not a person to be messed with

GTTkel said:
Mine was stuff in my childhood. After my mum left when I was 3 and screwed me up in the head from a young age my dad then married an alcoholic nutter who used to verbally and mentally abuse me. She'd make up lots of nasty lies(abit like Stella from EastEnders) and she'd make threats like she was going to have my dog put down which to a kid is a big thing. She'd tell me that I made my dad cry and loads of really nasty stuff. She'd do things like tickle me in the ribs then turn it into really painful digs and squeezing and then act like I was a baby for saying it hurt.
Abit further down the road(once I'd gone to live with my nan and grandad but still went to my dad's) she'd do things like when I was 13 encourage me to go and stay there for the night and bring friends and boyfriends round. She'd try and encourage me into under-age sex (which I didn't do) and all sorts and then turn it round to make my dad think I'd been up to bad stuff (which I hadn't atall). I'd also see her druggy friends with cysts on their arms from dirty needles and lots of stuff a kid just shouldn't even know about. I went through more in the first decade of my life than most people will in their entire lives but I can't think of one specific incident,it's just a whole mass of evil basically. I'm glad to say though it didn't encourage me to do bad stuff,it actually frightened me away from it and NO-ONE 😠 with me now

OMG, that is horrible!! I just got so angry reading this! I'm sorry you had to endure even ever being near that evil person! I'm sorry you went through it, but happy you came out the person you are in the end... good for you sweety 😀

staceyb said:
(((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))))))))) to everyone for what theyve been through xxxx

the worst thing for me was being being physically and mentally abused by my husband. i was living in a foreign country with noone to help. he said i could go back to the UK but i wasnt to take my daughter (Jami, who was 3 months old at the time) i ended up running off to a womens shelter with Jami and just the clothes on our backs. best thing i ever did

Stacey was this when you lived in the US? that must have been so scary for you, especially being in a place that was foreign to you. Proud that you were so strong and got yourself and Jami away from him.. evil efffer!!!

hapydazy said:

staceyb said:
(((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))))))))) to everyone for what theyve been through xxxx

the worst thing for me was being being physically and mentally abused by my husband. i was living in a foreign country with noone to help. he said i could go back to the UK but i wasnt to take my daughter (Jami, who was 3 months old at the time) i ended up running off to a womens shelter with Jami and just the clothes on our backs. best thing i ever did

Stacey was this when you lived in the US? that must have been so scary for you, especially being in a place that was foreign to you. Proud that you were so strong and got yourself and Jami away from him.. evil efffer!!!

it was yes. my own stupid fault really for marrying someone i didnt really know. do you know hes never seen jami since we left or has ever asked after her. blooming lowlife

ya know what? she's got you and James, 😍 and I think she is the better for not knowing him... not that he deserves credit for anything but he did her a favor and you by staying away... the SOB

thats true. thanks hun xxx

was once told at a party that I was the ugliest person in the room (by a bloke) really upset me at the time

just after my baby emily died in May 2001, a former work colleague came round to see me. I was showing her pictures of emily and naturally, i started crying. She turned round and said

' why do you want pictures of a dead baby if they upset you so much'

She almost left the house via the nearest closed window!!! 😠

JOJO said:
was once told at a party that I was the ugliest person in the room (by a bloke) really upset me at the time

😠 OMG i cant believe he said that!I think you look georgus hun you look like a Yummy Mummy!
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omg there are some really nasty and heartless ppl out there. 😠

glittergirl said:
just after my baby emily died in May 2001, a former work colleague came round to see me. I was showing her pictures of emily and naturally, i started crying. She turned round and said

' why do you want pictures of a dead baby if they upset you so much'

She almost left the house via the nearest closed window!!! :angry:

You didn't slap her? I'da slapped the cow.

the natiest thing to happen to me was my x husband physically n mentaly abusing me.
i was 16 weeks pregnant n he throu me down the stairs, oushed my head in to the tele. neway thats just a little about it as i hate talkin bout it. but i left went home to my parents had my lo 11 weeks early, he came to see him n left after 4 days with his new girl friend who he'd been sayin. once he left he kept phonin me up tellin me he's goin to kill me and just before i die he was goin to take paul while i watched n could do nothin bout it. he also said he wished my lo dead.
they he was put in prision for abusing his other girlfriend n was writin to me saying it was all her.

oh thanks hun sounds a bit silly as they are alot of really sad stories on here and hugs to you all,but my confidence at the time was a all time low and the guy in question was playing mind games with me,he was really just saying it to get rid of me so he could get off with someone else,really hurt me at the time even thou I knew it wasnt true,

glittergirl said:
just after my baby emily died in May 2001, a former work colleague came round to see me. I was showing her pictures of emily and naturally, i started crying. She turned round and said

' why do you want pictures of a dead baby if they upset you so much'

She almost left the house via the nearest closed window!!! :angry:

What a f**kinf b*tch to say something like that 😠 😘