Need some advice

Hey Rich, I think all witchy was trying to say is that people can meet online, fall in love and have happy lives together.

I'm with you on the fact that they haven't been talking long enough for this to really have happened.

Have you had chance to speak to him yet?

I can see that he clearly hasn't thought things through, but it is easy to get carried away with things when you feel you are in love!

I do agree, me and hubby met online, talked for about 3 years and were just friends, i was in a long term relationship. It was only when i met him that it turned into more. We spent a year going back and forth to America as that was where he was living at the time. I then fell in love with him and the rest is history, we have been married 3 years this year and have a LO. He still says he loved me from the moment we started talking....
I think we are a happy story and to add to it, we had no complications, i.e having LO's already.
They will have problems getting together because of him not working and her having 6 children by other men...no matter how much they love each other...the reality is they will not allow her to come here....