I must be stupid or something

Yep, I'm in touch with a few of them, but do to location I can't meet them very often. Eg. I'm in Hampshire and the nearest one is two hours away. In fact they're all about 2 hours away in different directions.

its a shame there is not a netdads type thing lol,

Oh, believe there are some single dad websites out there. I joined one and put it this way I didn't stay joined for long. The men on it were bitter, angry people and not particularly friendly.

I can understand why some of them feel the way that they do, but the way they got there message across was very harsh.

I'm thinking of trying to get into road riding once I complete my cycle challenge, and I know there is a local club for that so maybe I'll be able to join up.

oh dear that sounds scary,good luck with stuff and let us know how you come on with meeting new people,