rape (trigger, upsetting warning)

Well i told you all about that friend who made me take my clothes off on cam and everything, and who i used to sleep with before i got with Kris, well on sunday i went for a walk with him and he walked me under this ally and he kept trying to kiss me and kept putting his hands down my trousers i tried to stop him, then he got his penis out and he's like suck it but i didn't want to and managed to get away from him, also on that sunday he burned my arm with a match i think he was only playing but i didn't like it, he calls me names, yesterday he shouted across the bus station 'oi weirdo come here'. he tells me im f-ed up and it's all my fault and i bring it on myself,
is this a kind of rape??

sorry if it upsets anyone, just needed to talk to someone about it

OMG hun, you alright??

I think it might be classed as sexual assault or something, not 100% sure. Have you told anyone else about this?? If not you should, next time something worst could happen!

Hi sorry to hear that happened to you..being forced to do something that you clearly said no to is rape to me..this person is totally bang out of order..i hope you rang the police, people like that need locking up..

Sorry i wasnt much help hun

Big Hugs 😘 😘

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What he has done to you is horrble and is sexual abuse go to the police you must report what he has done to you dont let him do it again or to other woman 🙁 😘

but i agreed to sleep with him before i got with Kris, the bus company said they can't do anything about it because i'm not 16 or under 🙁 no1 else knows 🙁

just because you agreed to sleep with him before doesnt mean they wont believe you that you said no now..please report it..someone else could be worse off..

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It don't matter if you have said yes before hun if you don't want it to happen and you say NO that is RAPE do't matter if your man or wife e.c.t if you say NO it is rape go to the police report him 😘

thanks everyone...

In my opinion, i would say this is definately a case of sexual assault, or probably attempted rape.

If i were you, i would report this to someone, be it the police, social services or who-ever before it gets any worse.

I hope you manage to sort this out before it gets any nastier.

Good luck.

Hanny, do you have anyone you can go to and talk about this with? First off, please do not make any more contact with this creep... he is taking full advantage of your vulnerability right now and he's a piece of sh*t for it!!! I would go to the police too, I made a mistake a long time ago when something bad happened to me and I didn't report it... I know it happened to other girls after that and it may not have happened had I reported what happened to me. Maybe even call a crisis hotline if you have them there to talk to someone about this sweety. 😘 feel free to pm too if ya want ok hun.

PMed

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Did this happen befor the Web thing and befor you split with your BF hun x x

yes it happened last sunday

hanny how old are you???

it seems to me that you are very very vunerable and should be seeking help. have you any good friends or family that you can contact?? if not i would seriously advise speaking to a social worker as you are being manipulated and abused.

for the sake of yourself and children seek help

if you want some one to talk to either via pm, email or by phone pm me!!!

thats defo sexual assault..i would cut all ties with him and if he goes near you again phone the police! 😘 😘

hope ur ok....that match thing he did is defo abuse aswell 🙁

It doesn't matter that you slept with him before, even a husband can be done for raping his wife so the past is irrelevant. You need to sort it out before it gets worse. Don't be afraid to talk about it

ah babe sorry to hear that best thing u can do is call police and ask for advice honey hope all goes well
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i'm sure this is indecent assault. I'd report him to the police to get the scumbag off the streets, not only to protect you but also other vunerable women.

So sorry you've had to endure this. 😘

How is everything going hanny sorry to ask but how old are you, not that it matters but refering to pinknfluffy it does seem you are at a vunerable state (hope you dont mind me saying)
Hope you have some one close to talk to and please go to the ploice xxxx

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