im so cross with my ex

hi everyone firstly i must apologise for not being on recently busy planning my wedding 😀

my ex has paid nothing towards our sons since august last year and as soon as his new daughter came along his wife has stopped him seeing our 2 boys, she wont let him pay a penny towards them, they were given the oppurtunity of just picking bits and bobs up as when they were needed but she wouldnt let him do that, hes had no contact with them at all since january, so anyway after trying to be reasonable over this i ended up going thru the csa, i have since had to change all our phone numbers etc and inform the police of whats happening due to level of abusive texts and phone calls from her 😛 not happy

i have had to inform the school of the situation because she has threatened to have them collected from school ( altho the boys wouldnt go with them and have chosen to wait inside school till i get there as they school 20 miles away from where we live due to no spaces)

i used to be good freinds with his wife till she fell pregnant, i dont think i was unreasonable in contacting csa as they were given ways of helping out without paying out too much, the boys are missing out on their half sister because dad wont put foot down to see them in his words " ill have to ask ****"

sorry bout the rant just needed to get it off my chest 🙁

oh hun! don't know what to say to help you out... Couldn't you talk to him and say that's insane and that he should have all of them as a family? There's no reason to do that just because he has a newborn. 🤔

hi summer,

i have tried talking to him calmly but no matter what i say to him the response is ill ask **** then i end up with abusive texts and calls so i have had to change numbers so there no chance of trying to talk to him again as it no use even trying,

rang csa today too, his response to them was i am not paying full stop ! so now we going for an attachment of earnings