I'm jealous of his cousin and now I WANT A LIFESTYLE CHANGE

Very, very jealous of my husbands cousin. 😠 She is so successful. Lives in Australia in a high rise condo. What a view, too. She's a lawyer and has her own office now. has a hot boyfriend.
I want to live in Australia or at least in a more sophisticated lifestyle. 🙁 i hate being poor and living from paycheck to paycheck and not earning an income of my own. I mean a high income. 🙁 And I want more finacial freedom to do more of the stuff I love to do. 😭
AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH 😲 I'M GOING TO STAY LIKE THIS FOREVER.

I'm not spoiled or snooty, I just know what I want.

Or....at least...beginning to know what I want

yep I know what you mean but these are the things we sacrifice to have children,I cant work as cant afford childcare so we live off nothing really just whatever hubby makes,I will return to work when the children go to full time school,we have thought about moving to australia but you need a trade and neither of us has one lol,I just hope my children will do alot better in life than we have,but then again there are alot of people in the world who have less than us so I have alot to be thankful for,I have friends like that who have good jobs and seem to have a wonderful lifestyle but then again they dont have children,and having kids has been something I have always wanted and love being a full time mum,and possibly one day a grandma to lots of grandchildren,I often picture christmas time when I am old being surrounded by a huge family,

TRy to enjoy what you do have

Others that you feel have everything may be jealous of you having wee ones etc or something else you have

I know what you mean though, having more money would make life alot easier

HOpe your having a nice day

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Enjoy what we have today! We do not know what is around the corner. It is almost a year since my friend lost her son out of the blue.

Money and wealth can never replace happiness and the love of your family and friends.What they(your dh cousin) have in money they might lack in love and true friendship?????!!!(not implying that this is the case).
We all dream of financial freedom (who doesnt lol) 😜
I live in Australia and i know for a fact that our houses/rent are way cheaper than what you would pay over in the UK so living by the sea with a view is not a big deal over here. 🤔
As for the hot boyfriend... WELLLLLLLL i think my dh is the hottest man in OZ 😍 lol...
We are not financially free just yet but damn it i/ we are working our butts of and are nearly there it just takes time and a whole lota patients my friend. 😘

You must be reading my mind. I get so fed up juggling money and hoping for the day when we actually live in a house rather than 4 of us in a 2 bedroom flat. I'd love to be able to choose what I want rather than getting what I can afford. I try to be positive and think that in the future when the kids are all at school and I can work too we will be better off and that hopefully financially things will never be any worsethan they are now.

yep you could be like us working 70 hours a week for no money and possibly facing bankruptcy, 😢

My advise to you is to focus on the good things you do have in your life.... Envy and jealousy can make one a very bitter person if not careful..... the grass isn't always greener on the other side hun 😘

Yep i agree with everyone else hun. We also have no money to speak of. We live on my df's wages (minimum wage) which is a paltry sum. We are managing though. I don't believe in 'credit' and although we don't have a lot (posessions) nobody is going to come and take away what we don have. I have a lovely df and 2 beautiful healthy (touch wood) children and feel blessed! As has been said the grass definitely isn't always greener. If you don't feel as if you are achieving your full potential then maybe look into re-trainning to do something else hun? I'm sure when you take time to look at what you have you will realise how lucky you are. 😘 Xx