Am I worry too much?

Hi I had a stillbirth in 2005 and when I was pregnant didnt like anyone touching my belly or was really careful in what I ate etc. Worried so much that I would lose the baby. Now my baby is 5 wks old and still worry if any of my children touch my baby that they might harm my son.
I know its normal but think its gonna cause problems for me with my mates and their children. I even dont like leaving my baby with anyone apart from my boyfriend.
What should I do if I dont want any child touching my baby. I am so worried that they may harm him when I am not looking.

I think you might get more confident with people going next to your baby as your baby gets older.

Have you told your health visitor hun xx

No i have not but just scared something will harm him and you know how people are in the street knocking u etc.

mystery24 said:
No i have not but just scared something will harm him and you know how people are in the street knocking u etc.

I think you should tell your health visitor hun, all parents worry but i think you do just a bit too much. with loosing your other baby maybe you need councelling?

Sorry i cant help anymore but good luck xxx 😘

mystery24 said:
No i have not but just scared something will harm him and you know how people are in the street knocking u etc.

You need to talk to someone about this hon, for yourself and your son, as being like this could make him nervous around people when he gets older or affect his confidence at nursery school etc.

As mums we all worry but because of your history its understandable that you would worry more. Get help, councelling will help you understand and deal with your fears and then you can enjoy taking your son to the park and other places as you deserve to 😘 let us know how you get on