todays the day (6.6.08 hes gone)

tomorrow is the day that chris goes away for the weekend. i think hes leaving between half 9 and 10am and we wont see him till between 12 and 1pm on mon. he doesnt seem to understand that if i do go into labour over the weekend i am only ringing once if he doesnt answer he'll miss out and if he does make it and smells of alcohol he wont be allowed anywhere near me or baby and i will make sure of it.
hes a w***a i hate him for this. charly is besotted with him at the mo and knows when hes suppose to be home she screams for him im gonna have 4days of that. + she hasnt been sleeping all week so im exhausted and trying to stay awake now my pelvis is agony at the mo and when she wakes up at night i have to ring his mobile so he will get up coz i cant lift her during the night. but all hes interested in is his mates and not letting them down (more like miss a boozing weekend).
me and charly and bump will be coming first even if it means he misses the birth of his son and i have to send a pic to him!!!
im not being unreasonable am i? expecting him to be here looking after his heavily pregnant wife and 18month old daughter instead of acting like hes single!!
sorry im know iv baffled on but thats it now xxx thanks for listening xx

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I'm surprised your Mum hasn't kicked his butt yet!! She looks like she could....

I'm sorry you're stressin right now hun, some people take a long time to grow up and some just never do... I hope your husband does.

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believe me its taking alot of control to stop her lol hes been smothered by his mother she still wont leave him now hes been kept a baby too long and it really whinds me up hes 28 on tues 😠 men lol

Ah hun 😘

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give him a slap hunni lol

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Seems pretty unreasonable of him to behave the way he is. I certainly wouldn't of gone very far away if my wife was expecting, unless it was required for work. But then it would be on the cards that I would drop everything and go when I got the call.

Frankly a piss up should wait until he can wet the baby's head!

Awww, hun. Sorry to hear of your situation 😘

Aww hun sorry to hear, your in the right, if your having trouble lifting Charly then if you go into labour who knows what could happen esp on your own, you got a mate who can stay round the weekend?

no they've all got kids of their own lol
but my lil 12yr old bro has offered to stay the weekend coz charly loves him lol

hes just left leaving charly screaming after him.
i still cant believe he actually went!!

oh hun ((((((((((huge hugs))))))))))) to you

ill be peeved too, but try to not let it get to you too much. you and baby dont need it and enjoy the time with just you and charly xxx

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believe me im gonna try and make sure this weekend is the best charly has ever had and make him wish he never went. lol thank you so much for all your ver kind comments xxxxx 😘 and all the hugs they're certainly needed xxx

I can't believe that he finds a piss up more important 😠