Angry!!!!

I am soo angry with Caitlins dad...

Cait has gone up to her dads for 10 days, comes back on Monday. I rang his phone yesterday, no answer. So rang his sister and asked how Cait was she was fine, asked to talk to Kelvin (her dad) and she said he weren't in, asked why and she said it doesn't matter. I got annoyed as she is there to see him!

Anyway I then spoke to his mum and she asked me if I was okay, said no I 😠 not!I want to know where her dad is......

She then tells me that his gf is 5 months pregnant!!!He hadn't bothered telling me, she also told me that he got a letter from the CSA? for a Jessica May who is 4 1/2 months old who is he other daughter

WHAT THE HELL IS HE PLAYING AT!!!!!!

He hasn't got in contact to the other woman about his other daughter. Cait is going to have a good opinion of her dad now isn't she?

Sorry for it being long

Oh no hun 😘 😘

I think maybe he needs to learn what a condom is!

All i can say is, his loss hun. I think it's great you are trying to get cait to know her dad, but if he doesn't want to know, there's nothing more I think you can do. His family are stupid for just letting him leave Cait with them all the time too.

so sorry that cait has to have such a 😠 of a father! its no role model for a child! and how hes hasnt told you any of this is beyond me! yeh im sure hes shocked to learn that he has another child - but how many more is there! how many more is there going to come in the future!! how many more children and women is he going to mess up!! tell him to grow up and to start being the father,not just to cait but to all his children!

oh my goodness - sorry to hear this...what an a**e!

just put cait and yourself first and she'l be a happy, content little girl.

xxx

😘 aw hugs for u

Thanks girlies, I told him when Cait is older he can explain all this mess to her because its not my fault he has made his bed he can lay in it and I won't be part of this. I said that he needs to see that other baby, not only that its Caits half sister!!!I will want to see the baby as will Caitlin.

Some males should have it chopped off!!!!!!!!

Oh Sweetie!

He's a complete idiot! xxxxxx 😘 😘

When you wrote your last thread about trying to get him to move (before the server failure) I was going to defend him a bit. But now, 😠 he is letting down us decent blokes that want to know our kids and be as much a part of their lives as possible.

Does he have a problem with all the women, or is it simply that he can't handle being a dad? What a loser!

Do what's best for you, however try to get him to see Cait as much as possible so that she can work it out for herself. If it she doesn't see him now and then finds him later on, it will most likely be difficult to explain. And your word against his doesn't always work out right.

orc30 said:
When you wrote your last thread about trying to get him to move (before the server failure) I was going to defend him a bit. But now, 😠 he is letting down us decent blokes that want to know our kids and be as much a part of their lives as possible.

Does he have a problem with all the women, or is it simply that he can't handle being a dad? What a loser!

Do what's best for you, however try to get him to see Cait as much as possible so that she can work it out for herself. If it she doesn't see him now and then finds him later on, it will most likely be difficult to explain. And your word against his doesn't always work out right.

When he lived with me at my parents, he never used to get up to Cait, I took Cait to college with me & he layed in till 12/1.

The other day when I was talking to him he said he got up at 8, so he didn't get upto Cait, so I said that whats he going to do when this newborn is waking up every few hours?? Just cause we aren't together don't mean he can slack off with Cait cause hes her dad, no one else produced her just me & him!

He can't handle it at all, thing is why should that other girl be messed bout by him & he'll do the same thing to his gf as he did me.