What is going on!

I have had the shock of my life today.

Me and my husband have always got along better than your average couple. For the last year I have been working nights him days and we hardly see eachother and have rather got use to our own company. Over the last 2 months it has become a bit of a problem and we have had a few arguements! Anyway, today I get this text from him:

"I love my boys they are my world, I would do anything for them and words can not express how much. However, I honestly feel I can't keep you, u need more than I can give. If i'm honest i just don't want to loose my boys'

Cheeky git! He came home at 1 for lunch and to chat about things. We were both very upset but it appears that he wants to develop in work and because I work nights and I'm never arround I'm holding him back

I just don't know what the hell to say. He's been away a lot with work lately and least one over night stay a week which does inmpact me going to work in the evening...He has been turning his phone off during the night when away and came back from london yesterday with a new bottle of aftershave someone in his team bought him.. Things are not adding up... I am suspecting this has come from something else. There have been other things to, for example, his phone called me and i could hear him asking to be taken to the cumberland hotel. Anyway he was not on the other end so I hung up and txt him. I get a txt back saying'I'm in a meeting' I;m like I don't think so your in a taxi....... He says yeah, just wrapping up the meeting in the taxi. What?

I'm not sure but I don't want to be with someone like this despite 10 years together..What a shame! I feel sorry for the kids because they love their dad but I don't know what to do! I'm gutted!

awwwwwwww im so sorry hun 🙁 that is a very long time together,but dont let him blame u for this cus i hate men that do that but there really cheattin behind ur bk or somethin.xx

I'm not sure what's going on! I have told him that if he's not happy leave - actually just leave but he started to say that he may be making mistake -To be honest that's not my problem and I could so without the head games. He is a very successful business man but loves money and doesn't appreciate a work/life balance.. Idiot 😬

he shouldnt of gotten married and had kids then,stupid.dont let him mess u about,to be fair u cant just wait and see what he wants to do cus he doesnt know every day will be like is he gonna leave isnt he,that would drive me mad xxx

We've been married for 4 years for god sake! Celebrated our anniversary last week - what a joke. I'm just a little scared of being alone.

most women get scared about bein alone,my husbands parents are still together but only cus they dont wanna change there life,they hate eachother theres no love and hasnt been since rich were little thats why i think they had a bad up bring.i would never want that for my kids sometimes its better for the kids if the parents do split cus they dont hear all the shoutin and fightin day in and out.at first they dont understand but when they get older they see why it was best as i am one of them kids lol ha my parents split when i was 9 and im happy that they are happy 🙂 xxx

Aw hun, I'm so sorry 🙁

Honestly I would say maybe there is someone else from what you have said - and the you holding him back stuff is a cover.

I hope you get some sense out of him - in situations like this you need it straight! Maybe it is all innocent, but he is digging himself a big hole by lying to you.

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huge hugs hunni 😘 😘 i wish i knew what to say, i hate to say this but it sounds very suspicious and im inclined to think there's someone else involved - you need to know the truth and trust that he's being honest and decide what to do - 😘

Sorry to hear this hun. Not sure what to say babe. Sounds like you better off without him. You do deserve better.

We are here and support you in what opinion you chose. Businessman only think about there wallet, he should of thought about his commitments.

If you do suspect something fishy then you can either try and catch him out or just go your separate ways, I know it will be hard but you should be happy 😘

🙁 im so sorry to hear that 😘

oh god, what a nightmare. just shows you just dont know whats round the next corner. i hate to say it but i'd also suspect that maybe theres someone else on the scene. i'd like to believe that he wouldnt go behind your back but just perhaps liking someone a bit more than hes comfortable with.
however it all turns out i hope it turns out for the best 😘

bec x

Hi, I just want to say I'm sorry for what you're going through hun, my best advise is to follow your gut and be strong 😘

Latest:- He reackons he has been out and woman have given him attntion. Each time he talks he adds a different line. Maybe I'll get the truth soon

The latest topic is that I checked through his phone -Feel really bad but I just had to know. He had his last call at 17.17 He walked through the house door at 17.20. I was his last called at 19.04 which was 3 mins but in his last call duartion It said the last call was 37min so he must have deleted his recent call. Who would he be calling for 37min at night when I'm in work!!!! I am confident i know that something is wrong now and am filing for divorce at 9a.m.xx 😀

I hope your alright hunny 😘

Have an apt today with solicitor at 3p.m - Gonna sneak on down and sort this mess out! will keep you updated! I cna't believe this time last week I was celebrating my wedding anniversary