Anniversary

It's my wedding anniversary tomorrow - 4 years already?

I haven't got my husband a gift yet because I'm completely stumped! We usually follow the theme I.E/ 1 year is paper so we will buy a paper gift. This year is fruit/flower. What am I supposed to get? 😕

lol a fruit tree!!! they flower in certain times of the year and grow fruit other times lol!

Get him a passion fruit 🙂 How about getting an avocado, banana, kiwi ect and mixing up your own body cream then making him lick it off you or you lick it off him with some fresh strawberries on top (or is that just something weird that I would do 😍 )

its my mum and das anniversary today they have been married 9 years omg it seems ages away lol
xxx

hey girls - what do you think of this - I got him an apple ipod. I thought I could link the apple for fruit!! lol 😀

thats a good idea lol its mine and my husbands 2nd on the 3rd december but we got no money to do or buy somethin, never mind we will just cuddle up on the sofa 😀 xxx

itis expensive but we don't do xmas for eachther or b'days. lucky coz it's his b'day sunday.

really wow fair enough,i would be upset f i didnt get a xmas or bday gift but not if we didnt have the money cus i would understand then xx

thing is, you have to make a safrice when you have kids - especailly 2. it's so expensive

awww is that why u both dont get eachother anythin well like i said if its to do with money fair enough no one can help that. its just i thought when u said it thats just what u do lol xxx

i totally agree MrsOliver - me and kev dont bother with valentines or xmas that much - to us valentines is just a money making thing and xmas is for the kids! as long as we get peed when the kids are put to bed thats fine with us!! just bein there with our family is what makes xmas special. like you said,kids are expensive and id spend my last penny on mine if it means me starving!!

these days xmas has just gone too far hasnt it - people dont actually know what the true meaning is anymore - people just see it as a take take take opportunity, what happened to love and peace and family meanings!!!

totallk agree. My kids still have toys they haven't played with from last xmas so I'm not going mad this year. There is just no point at 3 and 1

Hayley_Kev said:
i totally agree MrsOliver - me and kev dont bother with valentines or xmas that much - to us valentines is just a money making thing and xmas is for the kids! as long as we get peed when the kids are put to bed thats fine with us!! just bein there with our family is what makes xmas special. like you said,kids are expensive and id spend my last penny on mine if it means me starving!!

these days xmas has just gone too far hasnt it - people dont actually know what the true meaning is anymore - people just see it as a take take take opportunity, what happened to love and peace and family meanings!!!

its true, im so scared that my family will be disappointed because we cant get anyone gifts, i was like to my dad yesterday that i just love seein my whole family at xmas times and he was like not to worry about it cus as long as me and rich has eachother,kieran has his toys and we have food then thats all that matter 🙂 xxx

happy anniversary hun xxx

how cool is that? my birthday is on sunday too 😀

my exs aunt and uncle when they had their kids they found money was tight so for xmas what they used to do was set a limit say £10 and theyd get each other summat to eat, summat to drink, summat to wear, summat to do (game or a vid etc) and summat personal which i think is quite a good idea even though its nothing much its summat nice u can buya choccie bar for 40p say acan of coke for 60p sum socks or undies or summat cheap, u can buy those little kids games or videos and dvds cheap off ebay and then summat personal could be anything like a framed piccie of the kids etc

ellee1984 said:
my exs aunt and uncle when they had their kids they found money was tight so for xmas what they used to do was set a limit say £10 and theyd get each other summat to eat, summat to drink, summat to wear, summat to do (game or a vid etc) and summat personal which i think is quite a good idea even though its nothing much its summat nice u can buya choccie bar for 40p say acan of coke for 60p sum socks or undies or summat cheap, u can buy those little kids games or videos and dvds cheap off ebay and then summat personal could be anything like a framed piccie of the kids etc

That's a fab idea - Really thoughtful. I might have a go at that!