Why Am I Soo Scared???

hi guys i dont understand why im soo scared of loosing this one im only 8n half weeks but im really scared. iv been getting weird pains next to my hip and feeling so worn out all day and just keep getting feelings that im going to lose it.
im really nervous guys iv not got my scan til 3rd dec so still got a while to wait to make sure everything is ok but iv got a really bad felling something is gonna go wrong. 😢 😢 😢
iv been so stressed and emotional aswell. all i want to do is sleep. sorry if iv dragged on lol. xx thanks for your time guys xx

awwww dont be im sure everythin gonna be fine, i thought i was gonna lose kyle when i was just 5 weeks (i found out at 4) cus of my my inlaws stressin us out it was really bad i was depressed cus of them and im never gonna forgive his mum for makin me feel like i was gonna have a miscarrage cus of the way they behaved anyways take it easy lovely 🙂 xxxx

aw im sorry u feel like that things will be ok 😘

awww, dont worry im sure everything will b just fine. I felt exactly the same with this one, had really bad cramp for weeks wen i first found out, was horrible. 🙂

think it normal hun tbh, im 19 weeks preg and still think summin is going to go wrong, when u want something so bad u fear the worst , just a natural instint but im sure everything will be fine, try to keep yourself busy to keep your mind off things, and the time b4 your scan will fly by.

This is my first and I have been really worried as this baby is very wanted. I have spotted for two weeks and at 11 weeks I am finally getting to see a midwife I am sure my county service sucks

TAMS said:
This is my first and I have been really worried as this baby is very wanted. I have spotted for two weeks and at 11 weeks I am finally getting to see a midwife I am sure my county service sucks

Where do you live? You should have been admitted to the Early Pregnancy Care Unit when you started spotting, I'm sure it's fine but even I was rushed in with cramp!

I still panic now this is my first and everything worries me, my Midwife here has told me it's perfectly normal and not to worry just to enjoy it - I know easier said than done!

Live outside Leicester so classed as Leicestershire. My GP was "These things happen do not stress as that makes it worse and do not do bed rest as that has been proved not to work". I found in a preg book that spotting around the time that you would have had perios is normal as your pregnancy hormones are not as strong as the monthlies. Tomorrow I have decided that I am going to put up a fight to get my scan oprganised asap as my friend in has had to wait 3 weeks after seeing the midwife the first time. I just do not think this is good enough.

TAMS said:
Live outside Leicester so classed as Leicestershire. My GP was "These things happen do not stress as that makes it worse and do not do bed rest as that has been proved not to work". I found in a preg book that spotting around the time that you would have had perios is normal as your pregnancy hormones are not as strong as the monthlies. Tomorrow I have decided that I am going to put up a fight to get my scan oprganised asap as my friend in has had to wait 3 weeks after seeing the midwife the first time. I just do not think this is good enough.

It can be normal but I'd still have insisted on making sure everything was ok I can understand your worry - I'd give em hell hon until you're satisfied, it's your baby and your body you know what you want.

Aw hon being scared is totally normal. This is where it all begins! I was constantly worried about my bump the first time, then after she was born my worries doubled LOL - this is what they mean by mummy worries!!!

I think it just means that you're preparing to be a fab, caring mummy xxxx

This pregnancy has been a bit of a bumpy ride (heh heh heh gettit? Bump? :D) and I did panic on occassion early on. One morning I woke up to spotting (I had had it for two eeks but thought it had finally stopped). I phoned the midwife at the early preg unit and basically told her that I believed I was no longer pregnant and that I was gutted. She gave me a scan within half an hour. I think you get what you moan for in this world.... be mean and be assertive - get on that phone girl!!!

xxx

TAMS said:
This is my first and I have been really worried as this baby is very wanted. I have spotted for two weeks and at 11 weeks I am finally getting to see a midwife I am sure my county service sucks

U should have seen your midwife before now, you normally have a dating scan at around 12 weeks. im sure everythin will be fine tho, i know how u feel, this baby was v wanted and i think you naturally worry about stuff even more when u want something so badly. 🙂