I Hate My Husband

my husband is in a band last year they had some awards night. even though i was due to drop i let him go because he said he was getting an award. well he came home with nothing.
its on again tonight my lil girl is very ill i had to take her to hospital last night im tired and worn out but hes decided hes goin hes now gone no idea what time he'll be back and he was calling me selfish because i asked him to stay home.
im now really worried if this baby is going to be a good idea!!!!! 🙁 🙁 the thing is i was starting to get excited about it!! 😢

ah hun think us woman all feel like that at times about our partners lifes not changing as much as ours do when we have children,think this is all part of being a mother,I would let him go but make sure he makes things up to you,go spend some money on yourself or when you have had baby and feeling back to your oldself get yourself out with the girls,really dont think you should make a big deal as you may regret things later,chin up and if you get bored you can always chat to us girls on here,

😘 Hi ya hun,i think what Jo said is right,its not worth arguing over at times.
Big hugs to you try not to stress to much hun and maybe have a chat with him tomorow if you are still feeling a bit upset about things.xxx

there so selfish sometimes i dont think they understand how we feel when were pregnant

Aw hun I know what you mean. My hubby has his 'hobby' (lets not even go there with that one)! lol!

He is in the loft watching trains run around the track as I type (you got an idea of his hobby now??).

Earlier I was sorting the washing out and folding stuff up from the dryer, I could hear George banging on his bedroom door as he'd woken up and wanted to get out! My DH totally ignored him although he wasn't doing anything that could be broken off, I had to go upstairs and get him, change his nappy then finish off the washing. I asked him as I went past the hatch what he was doing...'Nothing much' is what I got back 😠 Grrrrr!!!

Men have different priorities to women...themselves first!!!

candgsmum said:


Men have different priorities to women...themselves first!!!

Strange that, I think us blokes probably think the same about their women. Or we can never get it right. Apparently I did too much, and did not spend enough time for myself. Just one of the many crap reasons for leaving me. So no more accusing us all of being the same way please.

I would like to think, that in this situation, that I would have made the choice to stay, unless he was actually getting an award (which is kind of special).

Ok I'll count myself as told 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊

I know not all men are the same and shouldn't tar with the same brush. Sorry I offended you, wasn't my intention. 🙁

thanks for all your kind words he got in at 1.40am and didnt bring back an award but a bottle of wine which neither of us drink.
things are kind of ok now though luckily last thing i wanted was stress around charly!!!!