I cannot cope

I'm actually falling apart here.

The guy I was stupid enough to be falling for has walked out on me as soon as things got complicated.

The guy who said he would stand by me has in fact been lying through his teeth to me.

I am a total mess and can't even handle normal things on a day to day basis.

I actually don't know what to do.

I'm really sorry to hear you're in this situation. I wish I had some advice for you but have never been in that situation you must be feeling terrible. I'm really new to this forum but am here if you need someone to vent off to.

Gem

Hun this just doesn't sound like you. You are always such a strong person 😘 😘

You can cope without them, even if you don't think you can at the moment. I'm sorry to hear that neither of them want to know, but, it is their loss - they are missing out on something so great here.

Remember pregnancy hormones (and don't forget the fact you are stopping smoking) won't be making you feel on top of the world at the moment, but things will work out somehow, even if right now, there doesn't seem much chance.

You need to think of number one and your 2 kiddies and sod the men. Having your heart broken right now is the worst timing ever - but at least you know where you stand with this guy now, he's an :angry:! You can cope hun, you need to vent, get it off your chest.

DON'T BLAME YOURSELF! Take care of yourself hun xxx

i'm with candgsmum on this hun 😘 😘 😘

yup me to thats the best advice fiding out your pregnant qutting smoking and this will be making you feel a mess men there such 😠 at times they have no clue what its like your a strong pregnant woman girl power 😘

hunnie this isnt you talking! You are a strong person who can get through anything! Things seem so hard at the moment but trust me hunnie you will look abck on this and realise it isnt as bad as it seems, you are pregnant, full of hormones and to top that off you are quitting smoking, both of these are hard enough alone let alone put together! and men well lets not even go into that, they are absolute 😠 at times hunnie! but you will get through this! Create a mantra for yourself, you are a strong woman who can get through anything! 😘

sorry you're feeling so low hunni - its understandable as youve been let down - huge 😘 from me

yu will cope hunni - im not saying it will be easy, but you have wonderful things to look forwad to, with or without men xxx

look hun - youve got hormones all over the place, your doing a great thing in packing in the ciggies and its that together probably taking its toll on you.

ignore the men - your gonna do great without them,youve not only already got your kids but another bundle of joy on the way,and they will keep you smiling - keep you going when times are hard. 😘

😘 Awww hun big hugs to you,as everyone has said your body is going through some huge changes hormones, ciggies etc.Hang in there girl your kiddys need you and your little bump needs you to stay well.Remember we are all here for you.xxx 😘

Thank you everyone. I have had a weekend away and it has done my the world of good. Me and drew have sorted things out, we both had things out of perspective. And Brenden appears to have stopped running. I'm going to see him tomorrow night, to talk things through, he even mentioned wanted to sort out how he can support me through this.

It was all such an initial shock to everyone, it seems forever ago this started, but its only been 6 days. Hopefully things are going to get a bit brighter from here on in.

Here's hoping...

theres nothing i can really add thats not already been said so ill give you some (((((((((massive hugs))))))))) instead. take care hun xxx

aww hunnie am glad things are starting to look up for you, and am glad both drew and brenden have got their heads round this! have you got a date for your scan yet hunnie? 😘

ive just been told i could have to wait as much as 16 weeks or more!!!

wow - i go away for a week and look what happens!!!!

huge huge congratulations flower 😀 😀

how are you feeling green and puky 🙁 or glowing and radiant 😘

hope you get things sorted out with brendan but whatever happens always think of yourself and what is best for you and your babies!!!

awwwww im all clucky and broody but i know my next one is my last one and we have to clear off our credit cards first so im looking at maybe 2 years away so i can wait!!