i know who my friends are!!

i hate living here - cant make friends for love nor money so i am so sad and lonely with out female chat etc..

just picked isaac up from school and a mum who i stand and chat with for past 2 years with her mum who i give lifts too is having a birthday party for her son who is friends with my son and in same class but hasnt invited isaac. she hasnt mentioned it and when another parent came over to ask what time it ended she ushered them over to the other side of the path.

i feel crap - i know she's not a best buddy but we are on the governing body together and she has a son a bit younger than lulah and she's always saying "oh look its your girlfriend" pah not a chance!!

i am so upset and now i want to send her a snotty text but i think instead i will just have to stand other side of gate. and not bother with her anymore!!

i hate essex and want to go back to norwich where i had friends and people were friendly - here they wont even give way in the car miserable sods!!!

awww thats awful - thats a really nasty thing to do, and you wonder why kids bully each other with things like that as an example ((HUGS)) im sorry youre feeling so low and lonely, i know its not the same, but i have more to do with my online friends than my so called real friends tbh (give or take one or two) it gives me aplace to rant and i generally feel better

its quite obvious that youre the better person in this and i would just ignore her from now on, and i wouldnt be doing any favours either x

hiya hun,it sounds awful! and to leave your little boy out - that is wrong,even if you and this wonman did have a problem,the kids shouldnt suffer as its gonna incourage her kid to be funny with isaac if hes in a bitchy atmosphere like that!
if it were me,i would either have it out with her or give her a call - dont text as this is showing that your too afraid to give her a peice of ur mind in person - you want to make it clear that whatever problem shes got with you, you aint gonna let it get at you - hold your head high when your walkin actoss the playground - and what always gets to bitchy mothers like that is if you get chatty with the dads!!

aww babe
xx

to be honest hun - i think the only decent people around are those online! lol! my best friend turned into a complete b 😠 h when i had ethan and buggered off - turned up for his christening and disappeared again! iv only got one decent friend who iv been friends with since high skool - shes the sort u can never get rid of even if u tried - haha!!

Don't worry too much hun. Just smile and hold your head up. I only get to take Charlotte to nursery once a week due to me working 🙁

I don't really talk to any mums but I will say hello and smile, but none have really attempted to talk to me. I know a mum there that used to be in our circle of friends before we both ended up pregnant lol. We both found our friends dumped us and we have a chat now and again, but her son is a year above so we only see each other at home time.

There are even a couple of mums who were in the same year as me at high school but they are already friends with a group of mums so don't really talk to them, but smile and say hello.

I find the teachers at Charlotte's nursery a pain, I always have to ask them how she is doing and one of them thought my SIL was Charlotte's mum 😠 as she often picks her up. I feel like they brush me off because I work. Fortunately my DH drops her off mostly.

Sorry that was a rant lol!

Hugs to you hun, 😘

Sorry to hear you're having a bad time of it. The best thing to do is rise above it. Don't be sending any silly texts otherwise you'll be stooping down to her level and it can backfire on you.

Hope things start to look up soon.

My sister has been doing her PHD at UEA in Norwich and it seems to be the back end of nowhere. Then again (he says cringing) why move to Essex??? Maybe I've only been to the bad parts i.e. boring, grey industrial parks.