OMG my weight

hi guys im going mad at the mo.
i had my lil girls nearly 10months ago i reached a big 17st the day i gave birth to her.
i went down to 13n half but since then iv managed to put weight back on.
i now weigh 15st im only 20 and 5ft 2ish so its showing.
its making me very depressed all i do is cry its affecting my sexual relationship with my husband because i just dont feel sexy or anything.
i cry for no reason i keep snapping at my little girl.
i want to starve myself i hate myself.
i dont know what to do i keep argueing with my hubby which makes me comfort eat.
please please if anyone has any advice i would be very grateful im at the end of my tether.
thanks guys

😘 I'm sorry, I don't have any advise other than hang in there hun... One thing that I can say that has come with age for me is the acceptance of my body... I'm now 38, 10 years ago if I was the weight I am now I would have been unhappy with it, but I've come to accept that my body is what it is and I just try to eat and stay healthy (easier said than done, I know that! 😉 ) I've been where you are with the comfort eating, the not feeling sexually attractive, but I think if you try to feel confidant and look at the positive things about your body or yourself in general than those things will shine through... hey, I guess I did have some advise after all 🙂 I hope it will help

omg hunnie you are describing me! I am about 5ft 2 and weigh about 15 stone! not good as I never used to weigh this much its only in the last 6 months I seem to of put about a stone on! I feel the same way hunnie about the feeling attractive! I was supose to start my diet yesterday but then me and dave argued so I ate some chocolate! not good but hunnie I know just how you feel! I dont know what to do anymore I just dont seem to be able to stick to any kind of diet! 🤔 am at a loss but hunnie if you want to chat I am always here to listen! xx

thanks hun i never weighed this i used to weigh before i got pregnant just under 9 n half stone and was a lovely slim size 10-12 with lovely toned body and flat tummy. i worked so hard to get.
i love my lil girl im not saying i dont want her but i now have a saggy belly covered in stretch marks big thighs big face and very heavy. im now in size 22-24 clothes i cant go out clubbing or anything coz i cant find anything that fits. it makes me so sad.
me and chris have been arguing everyday at the mo to the point where i keep questioning whether our marriage i gonna work i do love him but............
i just dont know, im only 20 and having to deal with all this its driving me mad.
i really dont know what to do anymore.

dont take this the wrong way but it is nice to know that im not the only one. im really worried im not gonna stop putting on weight iv not stopped since i had her.

Hiya,it sounds like you are describing me, my daughter is 11 months and i too went up to 17 stone when i had her. a couple of weeks later i was down to 14 1/2 stone,and seemed to stay there for the next 7 months!
I was never able to stick to diets until i started slimming world 3 months ago, and to be honest it works! I have lost 1 1/2 stone. They are really friendly at group and really boost you self esteem.
All i can say is hang on in there and it will come off.
Maybe try slimming world it really helped me, hope this helps xxx 😘

i would but i dont like meeting new people face to face i get very shy i want to be able to do something at home. my husband doesnt help me though i know im over weight but he keeps saying im not and that im sexy just the way i am but thats not helping me it makes me think well maybe my weight is ok but its not why are husbands such pains lol

Very true my husband say's exactly the same things!i think that you can also join online and they send you the books in the post x

oo i could do that lol i need to do something though its affecting my health and my joints my knees are soo sore.

it costs to join doesnt it...?

It does, i'm not sure how much online? i think it's a 1 off payment. It should tell you on their website.I know it's 4.50 to join at the moment in a group,as i took my friend with me last week x