so sick of people

people where i live are getting on my nerves
whats it to them that i want 4 kids
not my fault they cant manage with there 1, 2 or 3 kids
i manage fine with my 3 so why cant they
sick of people saying are they all yours kids
what do you mean you want more

gggggrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!

dont worry hun, u do what u want!

i wouldnt care if ppl said that to me coz i wud just say ' f off its not ur business' lol

if u can cope with 4 then why not? xx

thank you hun
even my family dont agree with us wanting more
i mean my youngest is 2 and walks everywhere
so whats there problem

Hun i left a message on the other forum for you 😉

it's your life and your a fab mum why not have more if you can cope then what's it got to do with them nosey buggers? 😠

why not have more kids,your a great mum to your other 3 so why wouldnt an extra one make a difference! look at our grandparents and how many kids they had - at least 5-6... and its always them that moan isnt it!!

its like my sis was preg at 18,and me at 20 - my nan was disgusted with us as shes such a snotty b***h,i have hardly anything do with her,anyways,not only has she got 6 kids,packed in work to bring em up (which she turns her nose up at me for) but got married at 16 and had my dad (her eldest) at 17 then the stupid mare has the cheek to judge todays generation!

its up to you what you do hun - iv decided tho to not take it anymore tho and last week and kicked off at some pathetic old man on the bus because i asked him if he could sit somewhere else so i could get the buggy where he was (he was sitting in the buggy priority seat) he huffed and puffed about the youths of today and how we all have kids to get money - i went mad saying he doesnt know my background,and if its anyone whos a disgrace to society its people like him.as i sat down i heard people talkin as they do but im sure most people would agree with me!

If you want more hun, try not let it be your problem if other people have a prob with it. If life had taken different turns for me, I would have had a few more myself. It's a shame the people out there (and there are many here in the states) who are unfit parents and do keep having children to get money from the system, that make those good deserving parents that want to have multi-children families look bad 😠 . I know a single mom who has 3 bioligical children and has adopted 4 more and fosters 2 (whom she is trying to adopt now), she is one of the most wonderful ladies I have ever met in my life, and 3 of the kids she adopted came from the same mother, who has crack addicted babies and has given birth to 11 babies, all are either adopted now or are in the foster care system... those are the ones that should be given the looks and the snickers, and should also be given some effin' birth control!!

wow, sorry, that turned into a bit of a rant there. Go for it girl, make love and make babies I say!! Forget about the negative people out there in ya bizzness! 😀

they treat me like im stupid just cos i got depression after having lucy whos 2 now

well hun, you know what you're capable of handling and it sounds like you'd have your OH's support if you had the depression again... I don't think that's a reason people should think you shouldn't have more kids.... Look at Brooke Sheilds, she had PND pretty bad, faced it, dealt with it and went on to have another beautiful child and seems to be a great mom to both of her children 😀 ... I know one thing about getting older, I don't care so much what other people think like I used to... it's a useful thing that has come with age for me. Again babe, try not to let other people's opinions get in the way of what you want 😘

hapydazy said:
well hun, you know what you're capable of handling and it sounds like you'd have your OH's support if you had the depression again... I don't think that's a reason people should think you shouldn't have more kids.... Look at Brooke Sheilds, she had PND pretty bad, faced it, dealt with it and went on to have another beautiful child and seems to be a great mom to both of her children 😀 ... I know one thing about getting older, I don't care so much what other people think like I used to... it's a useful thing that has come with age for me. Again babe, try not to let other people's opinions get in the way of what you want :kiss:

thank you you have been so kind to me
this is the best site ever

no probs hun! and it is the BEST site ever!! 😀

Its no-one elses buisness how many children you have. I have two and won't be having anymore as I dont feel I would cope very well, but I certainly wouldn't critisise anyone else who had more children than me

Hi ya hun i agree with what everyone has said my little sister has a 6 month old and is 4 months pregnant .The amount of snigering and bitchy comments from people (especially rellys)is pathetic!She is married owns her own home and planned to get pregnant quickly after her first(she wants 4 children) and she is still getting frowned apon!but i adore her attitude her motto of oh well F"em!!Just do what you want some people are and always will be ignorant and opinionated because they have nothing better to do with their time. 😘

just tell other people to keep there nose out of your life

I would igore them and get on with TTCing! LOL

Some people thinks its stupid but i dont, i want 7 children! lOL 🙂

Tell them to bugger off! its your life so what if u had 10 kids whats it to them? xxxx

Crazymama said:
Tell them to bugger off! its your life so what if u had 10 kids whats it to them? xxxx

cos there small minded people who cant manage to look after there own kids so they think that no one else cant either

that feels better after that rant....lol

its up to u how many kids u have u have to look after them no one else i have 4 and want at least one more one day butits no one elses buissness babe ignore them hard i no but do let it go in one ear and out of the other
good luck with trying
xxx

Ignore them hun, if u want 4 kids have 4 kids if u can have 4 kids do it if thats what u want. I could understand your family making bitchy comments if u was doing it like some people do for the benefits they get from the government and for nothing else, but u sound like a great mum who just wants a big family then do what u want at the end of the day its your life u only live once this aint no dress rehersal live it how u want to live be proud of who u are what u done and get what u want with both hands and if anyone else got problems with it tell to take a long walk off a short cliff cos its your life and u will live it how u want.