sex drive

has anyone else lost their sex drive since they have been pregnant mine was fine before but now i relaly dont fancy it im hot all the time ,, dont feel sexy in the slighest im 7 months now so ive got a belly just feel hot an sticky all the time an not atractive also my back and hips ache like hell and i have a really dull ache down there all the time which the midwife says is perfectly normal just makes the idea of having sex a turn off ive tired to explain 2 my OH but i dont think he understands he just thinks im going off him or theres something wrong which there is not im 100 percent happy with our relationship i just dont feel like being intimate at the moment 🙁

Dont worry Im the same. Im coming up to 29weeks and still waiting for this sex drive boost we're supposed to have got in the 2nd trimester 😉 Its just so hard to get comfortable and Im so exhausted it puts me off a lot.

I was randy as a rabbit when I was pregnant with Charlotte but with George, I was so warm and tired all I wanted to do when I went to bed was sleep.

I was well up for it when I was pregnant 😀 although second time round I had to stop near the end of my pregnancy for medical reasons. I also found orgasms very good-extra sensitivity! and since having my kids I can sometimes have multiple orgasms 😀 which I never could before 🤔 But most people I know say they didn't want to do it when they were pregnant because they felt big, tired and not in the mood

I can't say I felt up for it during pregnancy really, though I did go through the motions on occasion

Things have improved slightly since ds arrived but i'm still not exactly gagging for it

I didn't have a sex drive when I was pregnant, still haven't got one now 🙁

i do understand what it must be like for you, it kills me to see u in the pain ur in most of the time as well. i think where the confusion comes most of the time tho is cos its hard to understand whether ur feeling up for anything or not, cos i dont like to incline anything on u if u dont really want it cos i wouldnt wanna offend you or annoy u, upset u or whateva, and fair enough i might be correct on the odd occassion i know i have been wrong on others as well lol. i dont do it to annoy u its just cos its something weve always done, but obviously now its not quite the same for u which i fully understand. i would never ever think ur going off me either, or theres something wrong cos i know u wud tell me, its just cos i can tend to get mixed signals sometimes lol. sorry if it sounds like im going on everyone, just felt like clearing this up 😜 lol love you kimbe xx

(call me a tart, an idiot, soppy or whateva i dont mind 😜 lol)

Aww thats cute

u soppy sod 😍

lol i know but thats just me 😜 i just wanted u to know why im way i am cos when i try tell u normally u dont seem to understand what im sayin 😜 lol but it seems to work on here ( probs cos i might not say it same way in person 😜 ) but u understand what im sayin baba? love you xxx 😉 😏 😀 😘

shh then it sounds like were in counciling

lol we aint in councellin at all, dont need anything like that were solid as a rock 😜 love u x

oh it's so romantic! I should get my DH on here too.

I feel like I'm always saying "No" to him. It's not that I don't love him, it's just I'm always flat out (if you pardon the pun) with the baby, work, housework, family etc and when it all comes to an end I want some time to myself to relax - watching TV, reading, having a bath - and tbh sex feels like another chore

Aww that is so sweet you have a good one there hun 😉

my John is like that all supportive and that 😍

But it is normal to go off sex or to have a high sex drive i had a bit of both threw my pregnancies 😊

i was comlpletly off sex with my 1st pregnancy - then right at the end i pounced on him every night.
im 32 weeks now and theres nothing there - hoping i get the energy again soon

Oh you guys are so cute!! 😍

I was the opposite Kimbe, but unfortunately I didn't have any body to take care of that for me 🙁 . I felt really sexy when I was preg too, probably cuz I had a good excuse to have a belly LOL

Good thing you're gettin used to it now cuz it's worse when you have the baby cuz you're both gonna be soooooo tired all the time 😴

i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo 😍

Hehe 😏

kimbe said:
i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo :love:

well good, glad to hear it 😀 😏