men

can i just ask u guys something? is it unreasonable to expect a txt msg at least from a partner if they r gonna be late or are going out after work. i dont wanna seem like a nagging wife but i dont think its classed as wanting to know their every move just to find out if im home alone again tonite. i never seem to be worthy of being told. if im lucky he calls when he is on his way home. thing is everyone at his work seems incapable of just going home its always off to the pub and he follows. he has come home on time once this week. has got up twice in the past week to feed her breakfast and has put her to bed once. sorry to rant guys but i need to let it out somewhere. x

Hmmm some of this sounds oh so familiar!!!! I must admit my hubby does call and let me know where he is, what time he will be home (although he is always late, which really annoys me!!). But i can sympathise with the other part...hubby is rarely here to put Elani to bed. He is at work by the time she wakes up, so i get her ready and drive her to nursery. I practically have 2 full time jobs, i work 4days a week in a stressful job plus i do almost everything with Elani. Oh not forgetting trying to do the housework!!! Men!!! I mean he is good really, just his boss is making him work really long hours and then expects him in on a Saturday!!!!
So in a nutshell, no its not unreasonable to expect a text to let you know where he is, and what time he expects to be home, but unfortunately men generally dont think like we do!
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well thank you for replying. its good to know that im not just being possesive or anything. dont think they realise just how good they have it. i work 3 days a week look after my little girl do most the house work. im pretty tempted to not was his clothes for a few days and see what happens ha ha petty i know i just get sick of him thinking its ok to come home whenever he feels like it without a second thought about me and his daughter. xxx

i know where you are coming from hunni i find it more annoying because if it was the other way round they would be saying the same. But because its us saying it we are nagging 😉

not unraslonable to expect one babe but he is a man so the world i am gonna say is r u expecting one cos if u r then u r gonna be very mistaken i dont no a man yet that has done and i am sorry to those men out there that do and i have a question for them y dont u live near me lol
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glad im not alone in all this. i dont wanna be one of those people who has to know their husbands every move but at the same time i dont think a phone call to check that i havent had a hard time with the baby and could use a break is expecting too much. i dont see why being a man is an excuse for bad manners and a lack of consideratipon ha ha. im only his partner why come home to me when he can spend 8 hours a day at work with these people, a further 2 or 3 down the pub with them then come home and play on line computer games with them til bed time. im sure i speak for many women when i say AAAAAAAHHHRRRGHH

casey27 said:
im sure i speak for many women when i say AAAAAAAHHHRRRGHH

you speak for me hunni 😀

Men and Women alike should leave notes and call. It is flat rude not to no matter who you are.