Desperate for help please :(

Hi all,

Really desperate for some advice now 🙁 its driving me crazy.
So I had a really dodgy period like 1 day of bleeding and the rest just brown Mark's on my tampon. This was followed by a week of constant neusea and a weekend of crazy mood swings the kind I get when I'm on my period.
I took 2 boots pregnancy tests and got 2 positives. I then took 2 sainsburies cheapies and a frer and got negatives, I then bought more boots ones, took one got a negative, took another frer got a negative and then took another boots one and got a positive. My doctors reffered me straight to the midwife and I have an appointment in 2 weeks!
I spoke to the midwife and told her my concern about all the mixed results! She said the positives wouldn't be positive if they weren't so congratulations! I was cramping lots too but worrying it was just in my head, and then I called the doctor because I needed to be sure, they told me they wouldn't give me a pregnancy test or blood test or anything which I am so shocked about. I've been feeling my boobs to see if they were sore for some kind of sign, and today they are quite tender, but now I'm wondering if they really are tender because of being pregnant or because I have been feeling them! If anyone one has any advise I would appreciate it so much
Thank you !

That sounds really stressful, especially with all the mixed results - no wonder your head is spinning.
From what I understand, false positives are quite rare compared to false negatives, especially early on when hormone levels can still be low and fluctuate. That could explain why some tests are picking it up and others aren’t yet.
Early pregnancy symptoms can also overlap a lot with period symptoms, which doesn’t help at all.
It’s frustrating your GP won’t do a blood test, but the midwife sounds quite confident which is reassuring. If you can, maybe try testing again in a few days with first morning urine - that’s usually when levels are highest.
In the meantime, try not to overanalyse every symptom (easier said than done, I know). You’ve done everything you can for now.