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pregnant again after giving birth 5 months ago!!

posted 1 decade 4 years ago
I am glad i have stumbled across this site as i am in need of some serious advice!
I have a beautiful little boy who has turned 5 months yesterday! 1 week ago i found out i was pregnant - Again!
Now my relationship with my partner ( my little boys dad) isn't really that strong as when i found out i wsa pregnant we werent together, we have recently talked through our problems and are trying to work on our relationship, we have been together 2 years and my partner isn't really Avalible mentally at the moment as he is strugling with some past issues ( nothing to do with our immediate family) just things from his childhood.
He is an Amazing dad but he has said he isn't ready for another baby yet, i am only 19 and he is 21 in may. i have thought about going through with it all on my own but i wondewred if there was anyone in a similar situation that could tell me how they coped, i dont want to terminate the pregnancy but i feel that right now it is my only option because i dont no if it would be fair on my little boy and on my partner. i am baout 7 weeks pregnant at the moment and my due date would fall around about my son due date too!
Would really love some Advice!! THANK YOU Smile x

posted 1 decade 4 years ago
I think you should do what is right for you, do you have the support from friends and family to help you through? Maybe your BF could get some help for his problems and just needs a little time out to sort his head out. I have a few friends that have been in your situation, it isnt easy but you dont want to do anything you are going to regret so you really need to make your own mind up, be selfish and do what is best only for you as its you that is going to have to deal with the situation long term. All the best Smile

posted 1 decade 4 years ago
A friend of mine is in the same boat but she has fallen with TWINS !!!!

She is keeping them and getting as much help as she can as she knows she will need support, neither of them wanted this but they are coping

do whats right for you

If it was me I would keep the baby then consider some long term contraception (coil. implant)

posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I agree, do what is best for you. Good luck.

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