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Might be pregnant and alone!

jrbo579jrbo579
posted 8 years 1 month ago
I had u.p sex not long ago about a week today. Anyway, I took the morning after pill the day after and had side effects. I don't think it has worked because having symptoms. I had pink spotting 2 days after lighter and shorter than usual and cramping then a bit of blood stained discharge and no more since.

I've been feeling tired, sick, light headed when standing too quick, constipated, feeling hot, pulling pains in my stomach like mild period pain, backache, indigestion/heartburn, sharp pains and tingling in my chest and hurts all the time, mood swings, and feel bloated. I'm always going to the toilet but no sign of AF. I'm 9 days late if I am late because have have irregular periods.

If I am pregnant the father doesn't want to know. I'm so scared to do a test and find out it's positive and know it's the only way. There's a possibility of me expecting twins for a first time pregnancy. What shall I do if I am? Should keep them or have an abortion? Upset


shortie2shortie2
posted 8 years 1 month ago
Only you can answer that if you wanna keep the baby or not. Am sure your family and friends will support you even if the father isnt intrested.

WelshMumWelshMum
posted 8 years 1 month ago
Hi there, think I may be able to give you some peace of mind if you are still not seeing your period. I took the m.a.p. just over 4 years ago and had awful side effects with it- felt like I had a tummy bug as was constantly sick and dizzy for days after- could just be that it's playing havoc with you still and delaying your period?

If you have done a test and you're pregnant, don't think that you can't cope Hun. Whatever you decide is best for you we are all here to help and support you Hug

Lou x

jrbo579jrbo579
posted 8 years 1 month ago
Hi,

Thanks for your all your replies. I have done two tests and they were both negative. I still haven't had a period yet. I still feel tired, queasy, sick, headaches, dizzy, my breasts are sore. One minute I'm ok then the next I'm crying because I'm moody now and again then feel like I'm being nasty when I don't mean to. I'm getting period like pains on and off and haven't had this before. I'm so bloated and I'm running to the toilet more than usual as if my periods coming and it's not. I'm really late now. Is it possible to get a false negative on hpt?

WelshMumWelshMum
posted 8 years 1 month ago
I think it's just a case of the morning after pill messing you up with your period this month Hun, don't think you are pregnant- if there's still no sign in a week or 2 perhaps try again but I think you'll find it's just a late period and as you said you have irregular periods anyway I think it's just knocked you out of whatever sync you have.

xx

jrbo579jrbo579
posted 8 years 1 month ago
Thank you for your advice. You've been very helpful.

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