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MarkyboyMarkyboy
posted 9 years 4 months ago
hey guys this topic is more about myself than anything this is gonna sound pretty daft but

wendy now into her 7th month and i dont know why but since shes feel into her 6th and 7th month ive been having trouble sleeping for example one morning i fell asleep at 7:45am then woke back up at 8:05am and couldnt get back to sleep but im also having bad nightmare's and sometimes find myself waking up cold and even crying some nights is it just me or am i going nuts :S

but the weird thing is when wendy's sleeping with me and im cuddling into her i fall asleep with wendy at about 9pm and sleep like a baby all night this is driving me nuts i know it sounds daft but i dunno what to look for at the moment Sad


RichRich Moderator
posted 9 years 4 months ago
Sounds maybe you are having anxiety about the forthcoming new arrival. I think it's common, but any worrys go and see your GP and see if they can help you out.

MarkyboyMarkyboy
posted 9 years 4 months ago

Rich said:
Sounds maybe you are having anxiety about the forthcoming new arrival. I think it's common, but any worrys go and see your GP and see if they can help you out.


this is the thing i find weird though is its the one thing ive always wanted to do is be a daddy my nightmare's are more involving wendy or the baby not making that's why i think i sleep better when wendys here cause i feel like im keeping her safe Confused does that sound daft ? Sad

LihraLihra
posted 9 years 4 months ago
im sure rich is right and it is just anxiety but it doesnt sound daft it actually sounds rather sweet and im sure all the girls on here will agree

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 9 years 4 months ago
Shortly after I fell pregnant with my daughter, my husband had a nightmare and woke crying. All I could get out of him was that I had died.

It sounds like it isn't unusual, maybe just a way for your brain to play out it's anxieties. I know I had bad dreams while pregnant, I don't see why a man won't have them either Smile

shortie2shortie2
posted 9 years 4 months ago
babe please dont worry to much.....it wont belong before you move in with me and my mum and dad. And you'll ken am fine.

dont worry am sure you'll sleep well tonight since am staying Hug Sleep

flaminjoflaminjo
posted 9 years 4 months ago
Yes right this seems to be a normal anxious feeling to a first time parent,so please be calm and composed just remember you are doing every thing right so there is no need to worry unnecessarily.

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