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Might be pregnant!

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Last edited by Hailzw86 1 decade 3 years ago
Hi, I'm new to this forum and could really do with some advice.

I'm currently 4 weeks 3 days late. My last period was 17th February. The period I missed should have been on 17th March and the period I was due after that, this months, was due on 14th April. I have also had a little bit of browny/red discharge but it wasn't much.

Should I do a pregnancy test now or wait another week to see if I have this months period?

Me and my Fiance have not actually been trying for a baby which is why we have not done a test yet and I am also on the Pill. Do I stop taking the tablets or should I wait until I have done a test?

Any advice would be much appreciated, thankyou in advance.

Hailz


TanyajaneTanyajane
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
If you want peace of mind I would do a pregnancy test now.

and also I'm impatient and I want to know the result Very happy

good luck, keep me posted

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Don't worry, I will keep you posted Tanyajane! Wink

Please people, give me more replies....

I need some advice! lol Very happy

sliceslice
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Hey there, I would really get on a do a test,you need to put your mind at rest.If you are pregnant then you can get on with the preperation if not then you can get on with the practice.

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Yeah I know, I'm just a little scared... suppose it's normal to be anxious and all that....

Thing is though, I don't feel pregnant and I've heard that you know when you're pregnant.... hmmm....

Any ideas people? lol Razz

sugarsugar Moderator
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Ypou should do a test hun as u will need to stop taking ur pills asap as they wont be helping if u are pregnant!

imakeboysimakeboys
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
i agree with everyone hunni
^^^

you have to do a test - we are all wayyyyyy too immpatient to wait a few more days or weeks LOL

But on a more serious note - you have to know becuase of dietry requirements and other things that could harm your baby.

Good luck and my fingers crossed 4 u hun

take care - and dont u dare 4get to post the result hehe xx

bunnigirlbunnigirl
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
i think u need to do a test asap hunni so u no as if u are u should really be having appointments and scans and stuff soon
xxxx
good luck

SassySassy
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
- My blog
Have you tested yet?
I hope you get the news you want!
Keep us posted! Cool

alis378alis378
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Get that test taken or we wont stop nappging at ya Razz

Seriously though, it is in yours and your potential baby's best interests to get tested as soon as possible. As for 'knowing' that you are pregnant, I didnt with any of mine until I had missed my period.

Let us know how you get on
Kiss

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Not done a test yet, had a day researching pregnancy symptoms etc. By the time I decided I wanted to do one it was night time and can't get anywhere to buy one.... so.... had a look on the internet and found some that say next day delivery but I doubt if I ordered one it would show up first thing tomorrow morning as it is 22:44 now.

Starting to really panic now and wish I had a test here. Tomorrow I think I will be hunting one down.

Bryn (Fiance) has also started to worry alot. He's gone really quiet and is obviously troubled. Tried talking to him but he isn't saying much. He said he had mentioned it to his sister a couple of weeks ago and that she had said to get a test done (he didn't tell me until today, lol). He said he hadn't told me because we have had pregnancy scares in the past and it turned out to be a false alarm. This time though he said it seems different... ie: he thinks I am pregnant.... only one way to find out and I wanna do it now!

alis378alis378
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I wish you the very best of luck hunni and hope you have been able to take a test now. Have you not got a chemist near you??
x
Kiss

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I've order some tests off the internet and they should arrive tomorrow (fingers crossed). I'll let you know the result.

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I'm getting really excited now and really nervous. I hope the tests arrive tomorrow. Will be really disappointed if they don't! Managed to prepare myself to take them.

Had a bit of a moan before to my fiance (Bryn). Just blurted out all my thoughts and feelings to him, fears and hopes. To be honest I contradicted myself alot. Guess I've got a lot of mixed feelings about the outcome since if I am pregnant it isn't planned.

I decided I am well and truly against abortion.... well, I say well and truly against it, but I suppose it's each to their own... (I don't judge people if they want one/had one)
So, in that case, my personal preference is... I couldn't go through with one myself, be it abortion or adoption.

So, that means that if I am pregnant, I'll keep it, which is where I start to worry about how we will support him/her. We live in a council flat at the moment. Both of us are in between jobs (fat chance I'll get one now, IF I'm pregnant) and even though we're both in our twenties, I'm not sure our parents will approve (even though I suppose it's nothing to do with them/their decision)

I believe that everyone will get pregnant when the time is right, when they're meant to get pregnant, when the gift of a child is supposed to be given to you.

But like me, I don't feel secure enough. I have doubts whether now would be the right time to have a baby (if I'm pregnant). At the same time I think, 'how do you know when the time is right?', 'what if I miss my time by giving it up?'

As you can probably all see, everything I have said is a contradiction, one way or another, but this is everything I'm thinking and feeling. Is this normal? I don't know, lol.

Sorry if I have offended anyone in anyway, I didn't mean to.

Guess I just needed to ramble on to someone, I appologise if I've bored you, lol!

Byeeeee!

hipmommahipmomma
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Everything you are thinking and feeling is totally normal. No one is going to be offended by anything you have said. I can understand worrying abuot supporting your baby. I was 19 when I got pregnant with Josh, and although my husband was working we still worried about lack of security. Try not to get too worked up, easier said than done i know! Let us know how the tests go

xXx

bunnigirlbunnigirl
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
hing u have said is totally normal babe i felt the same way with all of my pregnancies and i now have 4
dont worry once u no for sure u will no if its the right time or not and if u aare preg hun u will sort it everything will come together u will see
take care hun and good luck
xxx

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Really disappointed today. Kept waking up in the night needing a wee and decided not to go in case the tests turned up. By the time the postman came I was desperate... and the tests didn't even arrive! Guess I'll have to wait until tomorrow! *Sigh*

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
The suspense is killing me, god knows how you must be! Shocked

chezchez
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

Hailzw86 said:
Really disappointed today. Kept waking up in the night needing a wee and decided not to go in case the tests turned up. By the time the postman came I was desperate... and the tests didn't even arrive! Guess I'll have to wait until tomorrow! *Sigh*
if they dont come tomorrow why dont you just go to asda there only cheap you get 2 for around £4 or even better poundland you get 2 there for a pound you really need to know hunny. even if you have been on the pill a cold or flu con stop it working properly Smile

Hailzw86Hailzw86
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Don't worry, I've already decided that I have to know tomorrow. If they don't turn up I'm off out to find some! Can't be doing with the waiting anymore... it's starting to seem surreal and I don't want that until I know the result (if that makes sense?!?!?!? Suspect )

Not sure if I'm just totally panicking and sort of in denial or if deep down I know I'm pregnant and preparing myself for the result, if positive, (again I'm not sure if that makes sense, sorry).

It's starting to drive me mad though.... I keep noticing I have my hand on my belly or my arm over it, I've started to flinch at quick movements in case I get bumped or fallen into (protecting my stomach I suppose), it's as though I am pregnant... but I don't know if it's my mind playing tricks on me because it's playing on my mind.

I'm not feeling sick, I'm feeling more hungry though and I get annoyed if I don't eat. I can't see any difference in the size of my breasts and they don't seem sore or more sensitive. I'm not sure if my stomachs starting to bloat or if it's just because I've been eating more, or just my imagination. Again, I'm starting to feel tired in the evenings but I have also started to get up earlier and I have also just got an allotment.

All these are symptoms but I'm not sure if it's due to being pregnant or just changing habits. I'm soooo confused....

I really need to take a test and I can't wait until tomorrow!!!!



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