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posted 1 decade 5 years ago
hey guys first post here

my girlfriend of 18 months just got her tongue pierced and i cant stand it. i really hate them they make me feel sick.

i cant even kiss her cus it grosses me out. i really wanna kiss her and love her so much. ive told her how i feel and she refuses to take it out. therin lies the problem
any ideas on what i should do

any advice is much appreciated

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posted 1 decade 5 years ago
Well done for telling her how you feel, many people wouldn't.

I am with you, I don't like them Gag My friend had one and bith her dentist and the GP got on to her about it- she ruined her teeth playing with it all the time and GP told her the piercing was to blame for her recurring throat infections.

You will have to talk to her again (without nagging) and really try to get across how much you dislike them but at the same time it was her decision to have it done and keep it and you can't expect her to change. You may have to come up with a comprimse to the situation, or hope the novelty wears off soon and she takes it out permanently.

Good luck.

posted 1 decade 5 years ago
You may get used to it in time.

My pet hate is blokes with earrings, and low and behold, my partner has an earring. I hated it, and loved it when he took it out.

Then I decided I did not like the earring he wore, so I chose him a new one which I was much happier seeing him with.

I have really got used to it now and it seems odd when he takes it out!!! Also have bought him a couple more since too, and love it when he changes it!

Never thought I would be able to feel like this, cos it is such a pet hate of mine!!!

posted 1 decade 5 years ago
I am not personally a fan of tongue piercings BUT I have to say that it's a personal thing, a piercing, a tattoo, a hair style or whatever. It's good you can be honest with her but ultimately I think it's one of those situations of HER BODY HER CHOICE.
I absolute detest when my hubby shaves his head and moan at him big style, but when he feels like it he still does it. Just like he prefers my hair blonde, but I've still had it coloured really dark coz it's for me not him. We both have tattoos but even though we may ask each others opinions before we get new ones, we don't ask for each others approvals. I think you'll have to get used to it. Is it more important to you than she is?

posted 1 decade 5 years ago
Sometimes you don't like things, but you have to live with them, I don't like tattoo's or piercing', Frank is literally covered in tattoo's, I can't stand them, but I know trying to stop him will just end up with an argument and him getting another tattoo anyway. The more you moan, the more stubborn and determined they become.

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