First time posting here as I'm after some help. My 7 year old step-son can't wipe himself after going for a poo. He spends most of his time with his grandparents where his grandad wipes him after going. Therefore, his attitude is 'why do I need to do it if grandad does it for me' or simply 'I don't want to'.
He can go to the toilet fine by himself...going for a wee is no problem. It's the issue of getting him to wipe.
How should Dad and I do this?
Of course we are going to speak to the childs grandparents about this but I don't think grandad will be so supportive and will probably continue to wipe him for his own convenience.
Any advice or suggestions would be fantastic.
Many thanks