Looong, but input would be great

Picked the wrong place to ask. Thanks anyway.

id say move on hes not interested and hes using you.

Your best rid of

To be honest it sounds like he's not interested any more. If a guy said to me I'd caused him to go back on 'headache medication' I'd find that offensive!

It sounds a bit like he likes a chase and now he's had you, he's done. Sorry to be so blunt.

I'd say it's normal to go through a bad patch, but when the whole relationship becomes like this you're just hurting yourself by sticking around trying. It sounds like it's not going to work so why drag it out to be in exactly the same place in 6 months time, when you could end it now and in 6 months be over it with a healed heart (and possibly happiness from somewhere/someone else).

GTTkel said:
I'd say it's normal to go through a bad patch, but when the whole relationship becomes like this you're just hurting yourself by sticking around trying. It sounds like it's not going to work so why drag it out to be in exactly the same place in 6 months time, when you could end it now and in 6 months be over it with a healed heart (and possibly happiness from somewhere/someone else).

Ditto!! Sorry hun but i agree with everyone else. I think you are just putting off the inevitable and hurting yourself much more in the process. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but i think you need to heat the honest truth and if we said to keep trying and it's worth another shot we'd be lying. Good luck hun, i hope you find happiness soon Xx