To be honest I'm trying to put off the big Parties
Charlotte and George have only ever had a tea party at the most

Both families make an extra effort to see them on their birthdays and stay with them a couple of hours. We find it quite difficult to arrange things because both sides of the family work shifts and funny hours so its almost impossible to get everyone round at the same time anyway.
For Charlotte next year we have told her that our holiday at the beginning of March is a bit of her birthday, she's really excited because we got a cheap deal to Center Parcs and she still talks about the last holiday there lol.
George will probably have lots of barbecues for his birthday being a June Baby.