On Sunday it was my nephews birthday and she called me a few days earlier to say they were having a get together she told me it starts at 2pm untill 4pm.
Well i get there at 2pm and as we were getting out of the car they were singing happy birthday and serving cake etc.As soon as the cake was eaten everyone went home i was there for not even 40 mins (it takes 45 minutes to get to there place)i then asked my bro in law what time the party started and he said 12:30-1pm untill 3pm
He then told me they thought i was not going to show up.I told him his wife told me to be there at 2pm and he told me i must have misunderstood???My DH cousin was also there and i overheard them talking about my DH birthday (which was on monday)and she was saying that there is no way in hell she is buying him a gift etc,etc and that she thinks our marriage is a big sham and we are only together for the kids
I feel like this is all school yard crap and as she is in her 40's i thought she would have the decency to approach me if she had a problem.The worst part was hearing her make a nasty comment about my sons smile she said he has a big mouth and a cheesy grin and his mouth looks to big for his face
I dont know if i should confront her? or once again let it go as i always do and let her believe im nieve and thick!!!
I just dont understand what her problem is?? Im trying really hard not to let her negativity into my life but its hard when its family.
(sorry just had to let it out.)