I wanted a water birth with my
DD. I laboured for 30hr at home and everything looked fine, was having baths which helped. My waters broke and all looked fine. Midwife even said i could stay at home and try for a homebirth if i wanted. As it was my 1st and
DF was worried, i went to the hospital. They ran the birth pool for me and i was just going to get in when they did another internal to see how far along i was. The midwife then noticed meconium and said she wanted to put me on the monitor for 1/2hr first. To cut a very long story short i ended up having an emergency c-section, so no water birth. With
DS i would have loved a water birth but due to the c-section i had to be constantly monitored so i couldn't, i opted for a tens machine which i used for the entire labour. Towards the end (8cm) i used the gas and air too. I thought the tens wasn't doing a lot at first but when i took it off i realised how much it was helping as the contractions seemed much more painful so the tens went straight back on! I loved it,
DF was pressing the boost button towards the end though as i wasn't very co-ordinated and he was watching the monitor i was on so could see when i was getting a contraction. I couldn't recommend it more. There is no side effects and it really helped. You do have to put it on at the start of your labour though as it helps build your own pain endorphins which takes time to happen. Sorry it was such a long reply hun, i hope whatever you decide helps for you. Don't try and be a martyr is all i can say. If you feel you need more help ie. epidural or drugs then ask for it. They certainly have their place, i mean you wouldn't have a tooth pulled with no pain relief! Whatever you are comfortable with is the way to go! Xx Xx