When you join a site, the first thing you should do is to introduce yourself and settle in with people, trying to post a link will not work until you have a certain amount of posts, and people don't appreciate people joining on the first day and going for advertising sites immediatley. Try and get into the commuity and get known by members before posting links
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Please note that anyone that joins up to a site like this and goes for the posting can be singled out as a spammer, I am glad to know you are not as you say a Spammer...so lets get to know you a little better.