i had to go to Jami's school last week

Tammy's post reminded me

on thursday jami got up in a foul mood then was dithering and basically it was obvious she didnt want to go to school (taking 20mins to brush her teeth was a bit of a giveaway)

i kept asking what was wrong and she just snapped. she leaves at 8.20am and at 8.40am she was still dithering (i was getting annoyed at this time) and so i walked her to school much to her disgust.

tuesday was her first day back after being off for a fortnight with chickenpox and this horrible boy was really nasty to her. she was so looking forward to being back and this boy really upset her to the point she didnt want to go to school. i spoke to the head of jami's year and shes had a word with him and jami seems happier. grrrrrrrrrr at these horrible kids

oh bless her. its not nice when kids are horrible to each other.

Hope she is feeling better about school now

oh bless how old is Jami? I hope that this boy is leaving her alone now

jami just turned 12 a week ago. so far so good with this boy. she says he gives her dirty looks but she just ignores him. ive told her he'll get bored of it soon and leave her alone

oh bless her, Gemma had a similar problem and shes nearly 11, this boy was really starting to bully her abd pushing her over and pulling her hair, shes got really long blond hair, calling her Blondie pancake?

But secretly i think that this boy likes her, i think he does this because he know no better and he wants to have her attention no matter whether its bad.

I hope that Jami can shrig this lad off and put it down to growing up.

((((hugs)))) to her

its such a shame when children are brought up to only know violence in some form or another. hope this boy is leaving her alone. did you have to go to the teacher? and im not quite getting 'blondie pancake' lol. jami also gets called 'jammie dodger' id understand if her name was spekt with 2 m's lol

staceyb said:
its such a shame when children are brought up to only know violence in some form or another. hope this boy is leaving her alone. did you have to go to the teacher? and im not quite getting 'blondie pancake' lol. jami also gets called 'jammie dodger' id understand if her name was spekt with 2 m's lol

its because shes blonde, no idea where the pancake came from but i guess its because shes sposed to be "thick" as shes blonde but in fact shes very intellegent and shes in all the top sets for her age group and shes predicted a level 5/6 for her sats when she goes to the high school in September shell be in all the top sets!

I dunno, maybe hes jelous!

thats prob the reason. brill news bout her sats. well done to her

staceyb said:
thats prob the reason. brill news bout her sats. well done to her

thankyou im very proud, i hope that her results are good, shes takeing her SATs this week, she got all 5s in the mocks. So its looking good!

Give Jami some hugs from me too!! She's gonna be knockin these boys on their butts when she blossoms into the little stunner she will be, she's already a beauty anyway! Bullies suck!!

i hope that she keeps away from this boy and that hes leaving her alone now

Poor Jami

I had a boy bully me for some reason when in high school, still to this day a little unsure why he took such a dislike to me (I think he was a big racist and as I tan easily a lot of people assumed I was ethnic, so I think that could have been a reason). He once tried to trip me up going down a flight of stairs on crutches as I had a broken leg. I have no idea why someone would do this, thing is he was alone as was I, he was a nasty piece of work, but me being me, I shut up and put up. I'm sure if I'd spoken to a teacher they would have believed me over him as he was trouble and I was a 'swot' lol. Thing is if he'd succeeded in making me fall down the stairs I could have been in a worse state than a broken leg - it still angers, well sickens me, to this day as no-one was around and no doubt he would have left me there until someone could find me.

candgsmum said:
Poor Jami

I had a boy bully me for some reason when in high school, still to this day a little unsure why he took such a dislike to me (I think he was a big racist and as I tan easily a lot of people assumed I was ethnic, so I think that could have been a reason). He once tried to trip me up going down a flight of stairs on crutches as I had a broken leg. I have no idea why someone would do this, thing is he was alone as was I, he was a nasty piece of work, but me being me, I shut up and put up. I'm sure if I'd spoken to a teacher they would have believed me over him as he was trouble and I was a 'swot' lol. Thing is if he'd succeeded in making me fall down the stairs I could have been in a worse state than a broken leg - it still angers, well sickens me, to this day as no-one was around and no doubt he would have left me there until someone could find me.

omg hun. thats awful