LuandTye said:
I am really quite down about my relationship. my bloke loves online poker and ever since we got computer he on it from the moment he get back from work til 1 or 2 am! i have to nag him to give baby a bath or his food. its like im his mum! he just doesnt understand anythin i try to explain. i really want to b single but i dont no wats stoppin me, i think mayb incase its a mistake then i will turn back and think '<img src="images/censored.gif" alt="Censored" title="Censored" /> wat have i done' then it'll b too late but wat if i stay wit him-then after a few yrs realise i cant stand him and have to go then ive wasted all this time and baby will b old enough to realise daddy is gone. What shall i do? take a chance or stick with it?
I felt the same about my relationship when my daughter was younger! stick with it hun, times are hard and you might feel that he doesnt do enough but that is how i felt!
i stuck with it and now me and my partner are happier than ever, we have arguments but hey who doesnt!
i found that things started to get better when mia started to walk and my oh seemed to bond with her loads more than before!
i think it came down to the fact he was scared of bonding with her when she was younger, he found it very difficult to! but now he does everything for her that he can (and i will let him do!) they get more of a sense of love from them once they are walking and trying to talk!
mia even learnt how to say daddy before mummy because he was spending that much time with her!

trust me things will get better once
LO is abit bigger and easier to cope with!
hope all is well hun! pm me if you wanna chat!
jodie xxx