wow, I just re-read that and I sound like Cinderella's step mom LOL
She likes to do all those things, I don't make her!!

but I do try to make her clean her room and I get so sick of arguing about it half the time I do it myself, that's probably really bad.... but then other times she shocks the u know wut outta me and cleans it all up with out being asked to
I try to tell her to only have one "set" of toys at a time out, but that only lasts for so long... should I put alot of toys away in a closet and not let her have so many in her room at one time? I've really been considering that option...