Mommy dilemma!

Ok, have a question for you all, as I posted previously, Aaralyn was very much missing me last night... I promised I would call her in the morning but now I'm not so sure that I should if she ended up having a good night and she's having a good time with daddy then me calling her may remind her that she was missing me and get her crying again. But! if I don't call her then I will feel bad for telling her I would and then not doing it. So what do I do? call her with the chance I may upset her again by talking to me or not call her and have her realize I didn't and be upset because I said I would.

Could I get some opinions please!?

thats a tricky one if it was me i wud ring just to reasure herm

i would call her dad and ask how she is, and ask him that if she seems happy enough to not put her on as it will only upset her.make sure he tells you how she was lastnight tho - like you said,its probably just hearing your voice thats upset her.

im sure shes having a lovely time with daddy,but if i was u i would phone,just not speak to her unless you have to.

thanks girls, I'm thinking what you said was a good idea Hayley, just may call her dad and see what he thinks about whether she should get on the phone with me based on how her night was and how the morning's going so far (if she's up)

I'm thinking selfishly though too cuz I wanna talk to her because I'm missing her lots now Might have something to do with how quiet it is here right now... Kristen's off to work, the 2 older girls are at school and the baby is with Kristen's mom-in-law, who wouldn't give her up to stay here with me today understandable she doesn't want to give up her time with Madeline but would have been fun to have a day with a little one again even if she is a big handful!!

Anyway, think I'm gonna wait a little bit then call Aaralyn's dad and see how things are going. Hope you all are enjoyin your day! I have nothing to do but relax around here YAY!!

thanks sammie, gonna give him a call around 10 my time and see how things are

Just got off the phone with Aaralyn and she is totally fine Her dad said he had to cuddle with her for a while before she went to sleep last night (cuz that's what I do!) and she went to sleep and slept well and only asked about me this morning but didn't cry because she was missing me.

So hopefully they will have lotsa fun today and she'll not be missing me so much tonight... even though I'll be missing her

She told me so she was going in daddy's yard to make a snow man, so she's got a good start to the fun with that today

glad she's ok now and the phone call went without tears xx

Aww hun didn't know she went to her dads, glad to her she is okay. I'm sure she will have loads of fun with her dad. Cait didn't really want to talk to me when she was up Leic haha