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catgirl_872catgirl_872
posted 9 years 11 months ago
only two weeks and very scared because i read about how labour is ment to be like for women, the whole three stages well not that the contractions how they are ment to start long/mild and then quick/strong.well for me i didnt get that all i got was back pains right the way through no different times apart and anythin like that just normal back pains and im so scared that this time round it will be like other ppl get, be so weird. Scared


Hayls82Hayls82
posted 9 years 11 months ago
awwww hunny, i have no experience but am already worrying myself about the labour.
I am sure you will be fine though hunny, you done all the leg work, cooking the bubs.
Hope it all goes well, good labour vibes coming ure way xxx

AlexAlex Moderator
posted 9 years 11 months ago
Having only had Joseph I dont know what 2nd labours are like, other than my pal says they are all different. Im sure you will be fine hun and once you have baba it will all be forgotten about. Try talking to your MW if you want she might be able to settle your mind. xx

catgirl_872catgirl_872
posted 9 years 11 months ago
yea im seein her 2moz i will ask her because ur right 2nd is ment to be easier but how can it get easier for me if my first was nothin LOL xx

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 9 years 11 months ago
I had lots of pain with both my labours but with the second one I was just like "Bring it on". I felt like my time in labour went quicker because I knew how it was going to feel. I don't know what your contractions will feel like but mostly second labours are shorter if that's any comfort. What will be will be, I don't expect labour felt quite like any of us imagined it would. Good luck though, before you know it you'll be on here saying "I've had my baby" Baby

gypseygypsey
posted 9 years 11 months ago
my 1st i slept through, my second was easy, my 3rd horendous im absolutely Angry this one.

hapydazyhapydazy Moderator
posted 9 years 11 months ago
AAwww hun, I never went through the whole labour thing either. Try to stay relaxed, I bet it will be a breeze! I'm hopin that for ya Smile

Wow, I can't believe it's only 2 weeks away!! I can't wait to see Kyle, I'm so excited Very Happy

WelshMumWelshMum
posted 9 years 11 months ago
Oh dear, sending you a big hug Hug

Both James and Gemma were born by caesarean and I didn't go into full labour with either of them, just the first stage and I didn't feel anything with James- MW told me from the reading on monitor! With Gem, I had very mild tightening across my back the night before but that went away by morning so I'm assuming she would have been an easy-ish labour too.

Have you thought about what, if any, pain relief you might prefer?

AlexAlex Moderator
posted 9 years 11 months ago
how did it go with the MW?? are you feeling any better about things now?

catgirl_872catgirl_872
posted 9 years 11 months ago
im stayin on gas and air LOL i didnt need it last time but i had it on the last two hours and i felt like i was asleep LOL was wicked LOL
i seen her today everything goin well baby head down but she said on the second they normaly engage just b4 the labour anyways i told her i didnt have normal contractions on my first and she just said come in if u think ur havin any signs.
hopefully i will have my show just be again then i will know LOL
im next seein her on my due date Smile xx

gypseygypsey
posted 9 years 11 months ago
Hug good luck it all worth it in the end

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 9 years 11 months ago

catgirl_872 said:
im stayin on gas and air LOL i didnt need it last time but i had it on the last two hours and i felt like i was asleep LOL was wicked LOL
i seen her today everything goin well baby head down but she said on the second they normaly engage just b4 the labour anyways i told her i didnt have normal contractions on my first and she just said come in if u think ur havin any signs.
hopefully i will have my show just be again then i will know LOL
im next seein her on my due date Smile xx


George was head down at 30 weeks and was 4 days over LOL! I think my mw was expecting me to go earlier than that tbh LOL!

Glad everything went well Thumbs Up

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