sex

hello just wondering how long everyone waited till getting back down to it after having there babies its been 2 weeks since i gave birth my stiches have gone and i feel ready but i dont want to lead him on and then say oo no it hurts stop kinda thing

i cant remember lol!! i just know it was the last thing on my mind with a newborn!

but as long as uv healed and ur MW/HV has given u the all clear with how your healing then it should be fine as long as you go slow! dont be afraid to get him going then telling him to stop - he should understand - after all uv not long given birth!!! anyways, theres plenty of other ways to finish him off!

its our aniversary so i feel its a nice time 2 do it again or least try 2 again ooo ek i feel like a virgin all nervous lol

whenever you feel its right. after jami it was about 6wks. i had stitches and was very sore. with ben and catherine it was about 3wks

yeah it was about 5-6wks after i gave birth before we have sex again

like the others have said its all about when youre ready hunni - think it was about 2 weeks for me - just take it easy to start with xxx

Um about 4 weeks after having Charlotte but that was mostly because I bled for a good 3 1/2 weeks after having her.

George it was about 7 weeks. Mostly such a long time because we were so knackered lol, sex was the very last thing on our minds!

i didnt get back to it for about 2-3months and it was fine i couldn't be bothered to be honest lol he was willing to wait as long as i needed him to.
dont let him or your anniversary pressure you into doing it again if your not ready hun xx

think we got down to it about a month or so after our first baby. I was so surprised that i actually felt quite randy!! once we'd started again we couldnt stop and consequencely found ourselves pregnant again when first born was 3 months old and i'd stopped breast feeding. but i dont think i felt so much like that after our youngest was born

omg i dont want 2 get pregnant again we have a large box of condoms we got down to it and it was fine im glad 2 feel bk 2 normal down der

ha ha lol! you dont feel so normal down there after another so soon after number 1. we're talking grand canyon! sorry i wonder actually if pelvic floor excercises would have helped actaully. nurse at the docs kept nagging me to do them but too much effort. does anyone have any proof that that can make a difference? oh well makes a quickie...er...quicker..

lol i never done them after charly but funny you should say about once you had started again you couldnt stop and you got preggers again coz thats whats happened to us charly would've been 9-10months im now roughly 11-12 weeks gone so always good to make sure you use pretection (not that always work lol)
glad you felt ok kimbe i did first time after charly most people dont we must just be lucky hehe

Ha I was absolutely gagging for it after my two but had to wait for the bleeding to stop so it was a month after no.1 and 3 & 1/2 weeks after no.2. Just try and get really relaxed and if you need it use some lubricant to help ease him in there Don't be scared, I tore with both of mine, second time was so bad I needed 3 layers of stitches and was virtually right to my bum but the sex was still pain free

i actually fink it feels better down there since before i was pregnant lol that or i couldnt remember what sex was like before getting pregnant lol its all good though had it again yeserday all protected though no more babies just yet

i was goin 2 w8 til my 6 week check but poor joe wud ov neva lasted dat long e was fruitier dan a fruit basket haha

I waited for 4 weeks with both mine but I had lots of stitches - my doctor says it when you feel ready. If you feel ready, go for it!