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Your views on porn

CrazymamaCrazymama
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
Do you watch it? does your other half watch it? do you watch it togther? just wanted your views on it, mine watches it and i have just accpeted that, after 2 years of hating it Shocked
It made me feel crap cos he did it all the time when i was in bed, would you draw the line at HIM watching too much?


kelkel
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
i have no prob with porn. if it becomes obsessive then it can be a prob and then u need to say something. if u both warch it then it can be quite a turn on, but not something that should be used all the time, just to spice things up from time to time Thumbs Up

hipmommahipmomma
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
likewise im not opposed to it on occasion. If OH watches too much of it and give him a slap! LOL All things in moderation right?

AlexsmumAlexsmum
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
My husband watches porn, he watches it with me so l can keep an eye on how much he watches, but it is nice to spice up your sex life, l have found that when we watch porn we are both really tuned on after.

HayleyHayley
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
jamie doesnt watch it, its me that does Embarassed

mum2ciaranmum2ciaran
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
DF watches it i dont relly like it but some ill watch with him sometimes its a turn on

EmmieEmmie
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
We both sometimes watches it it turns us on! LOL Embarassed

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
When we first got together 8 years ago I was very insecure and hated my man even looking at pictures of women or anything. But I overcame alot of these issues after a couple of years and since then have had no problem with porn in the house and we have never hidden it from each other. Although I have to say we are usually so tired now that we'd rather use whatever energy we have on having sex together Very Happy
Oh and I must admit over the years we've created our own little home video Naughty

angelmumangelmum
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
Last edited by angelmum 1 decade 1 year ago
me and John watch porn together not alot but it is a bit of a turn on Embarassed

casey27casey27
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
my partner and i occasionly watch porn together. we laugh at it more than anything else. providing it doesnt become an obsession i think its not a problem. i personally dont have a problem with my partner admiring other women on tv and stuff cos at the end of the day its me he chooses to come home to xxx

Hayley_KevHayley_Kev
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
we watch porn together,its more of a laugh than anything serious - although it can sometimes spice things up in the bedroom!
i would find it upsetting tho if i found out he was watching it and keeping it from me,but we telle achother everything anyways - plus i think we find out everything dont we ladies,its in our blood! LOL!

hapydazyhapydazy Moderator
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
eh, could take it or leave it... It's kinda funny sometimes, and sometimes it can be a turn on... I can't remember the last time I watched a porn flick to be honest LOL... Marc could take it or leave it too.... I think Shrug

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
I can't say I've ever been turned on by what I've seen but blimey I've had a good laugh at porn!

I know DH watches stuff and it doesn't bother me too much and I know when he talks to his mates on msn some pics of boobies and naked ladies are passed about.

I did once lay into him over some that was hidden on the computer and I found it by accident. I told him that it made me uncomfortable that he would hide it. I had only just had Charlotte so I was self concious enough about myself let alone him watching girlies with pretty great figures bumping up and down! He apologised and has assured me he hasn't hidden any since, guess I just have to trust him on that one. I asked him why he hid it and he said he was worried I would fly off the handle if I knew he'd been watching it, I would rather he just told me, hiding it made it worse!!

CrazymamaCrazymama
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
Been interesting reading them replies thanks ladies
I know i have been stupid these past two yrs, i noticed just after i had toby that he watched it and the fact he sed no he didnt but i still knew he did, it was more him getting of to that than sleeping with me Crying

one day i flipped and cried over it Embarassed i told him enough is enough you are obsessed!!! Shocked
then he admitted it, we have watched it togther since,i keep telling him to stop hiding it but he still does Bad!
I dont mind now if he watches it at the end of the day he aint got a chance with them as he?

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 1 decade 1 year ago
I think through things I've heard from some people over the years it's unfortunate that men sometimes start watching more porn when us ladies have just had a baby. We then get really heart broken because we are unhappy with our flabby baby belly and fear our man is also unhappy with how we look. But sometimes it's actually just because we are too tired to have as much sex as usual so our man uses porn to fill the sexless gap until we're on top form again. It's often nothing to do with how he feels about us

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