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sex drive

kimbekimbe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
has anyone else lost their sex drive since they have been pregnant mine was fine before but now i relaly dont fancy it im hot all the time ,, dont feel sexy in the slighest im 7 months now so ive got a belly just feel hot an sticky all the time an not atractive also my back and hips ache like hell and i have a really dull ache down there all the time which the midwife says is perfectly normal just makes the idea of having sex a turn off ive tired to explain 2 my OH but i dont think he understands he just thinks im going off him or theres something wrong which there is not im 100 percent happy with our relationship i just dont feel like being intimate at the moment Sad Face


EmzEmz
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
Dont worry Im the same. Im coming up to 29weeks and still waiting for this sex drive boost we're supposed to have got in the 2nd trimester Wink Its just so hard to get comfortable and Im so exhausted it puts me off a lot.

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
I was randy as a rabbit when I was pregnant with Charlotte but with George, I was so warm and tired all I wanted to do when I went to bed was sleep.

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
I was well up for it when I was pregnant Very happy although second time round I had to stop near the end of my pregnancy for medical reasons. I also found orgasms very good-extra sensitivity! and since having my kids I can sometimes have multiple orgasms Very happy which I never could before Suspect But most people I know say they didn't want to do it when they were pregnant because they felt big, tired and not in the mood

supernannymjsupernannymj
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
I can't say I felt up for it during pregnancy really, though I did go through the motions on occasion

Things have improved slightly since DS arrived but i'm still not exactly gagging for it

Kelly_CaitKelly_Cait
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
I didn't have a sex drive when I was pregnant, still haven't got one now Sad Face

MrJoeMrJoe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
i do understand what it must be like for you, it kills me to see u in the pain ur in most of the time as well. i think where the confusion comes most of the time tho is cos its hard to understand whether ur feeling up for anything or not, cos i dont like to incline anything on u if u dont really want it cos i wouldnt wanna offend you or annoy u, upset u or whateva, and fair enough i might be correct on the odd occassion i know i have been wrong on others as well lol. i dont do it to annoy u its just cos its something weve always done, but obviously now its not quite the same for u which i fully understand. i would never ever think ur going off me either, or theres something wrong cos i know u wud tell me, its just cos i can tend to get mixed signals sometimes lol. sorry if it sounds like im going on everyone, just felt like clearing this up Razz lol love you kimbe xx

(call me a tart, an idiot, soppy or whateva i dont mind Razz lol)

Kelly_CaitKelly_Cait
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
Aww thats cute

kimbekimbe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
u soppy sod Love

MrJoeMrJoe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
lol i know but thats just me Razz i just wanted u to know why im way i am cos when i try tell u normally u dont seem to understand what im sayin Razz lol but it seems to work on here ( probs cos i might not say it same way in person Razz ) but u understand what im sayin baba? love you xxx Wink Naughty Very happy Kiss

kimbekimbe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
shh then it sounds like were in counciling

MrJoeMrJoe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
lol we aint in councellin at all, dont need anything like that were solid as a rock Razz love u x

supernannymjsupernannymj
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
oh it's so romantic! I should get my DH on here too.

I feel like I'm always saying "No" to him. It's not that I don't love him, it's just I'm always flat out (if you pardon the pun) with the baby, work, housework, family etc and when it all comes to an end I want some time to myself to relax - watching TV, reading, having a bath - and tbh sex feels like another chore

angelmumangelmum
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
Aww that is so sweet you have a good one there hun Wink

my John is like that all supportive and that Love

But it is normal to go off sex or to have a high sex drive i had a bit of both threw my pregnancies Embarassed

morganmummorganmum
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
- My blog
i was comlpletly off sex with my 1st pregnancy - then right at the end i pounced on him every night.
im 32 weeks now and theres nothing there - hoping i get the energy again soon

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
Oh you guys are so cute!! Love

I was the opposite Kimbe, but unfortunately I didn't have any body to take care of that for me Sad Face . I felt really sexy when I was preg too, probably cuz I had a good excuse to have a belly LOL

Good thing you're gettin used to it now cuz it's worse when you have the baby cuz you're both gonna be soooooo tired all the time Sleep

kimbekimbe
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo Love

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 2 years ago
Hehe Naughty

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 2 years ago

kimbe said:
i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo Love



well good, glad to hear it Very happy Naughty

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