sex drive

has anyone else lost their sex drive since they have been pregnant mine was fine before but now i relaly dont fancy it im hot all the time ,, dont feel sexy in the slighest im 7 months now so ive got a belly just feel hot an sticky all the time an not atractive also my back and hips ache like hell and i have a really dull ache down there all the time which the midwife says is perfectly normal just makes the idea of having sex a turn off ive tired to explain 2 my OH but i dont think he understands he just thinks im going off him or theres something wrong which there is not im 100 percent happy with our relationship i just dont feel like being intimate at the moment

Dont worry Im the same. Im coming up to 29weeks and still waiting for this sex drive boost we're supposed to have got in the 2nd trimester Its just so hard to get comfortable and Im so exhausted it puts me off a lot.

I was randy as a rabbit when I was pregnant with Charlotte but with George, I was so warm and tired all I wanted to do when I went to bed was sleep.

I was well up for it when I was pregnant although second time round I had to stop near the end of my pregnancy for medical reasons. I also found orgasms very good-extra sensitivity! and since having my kids I can sometimes have multiple orgasms which I never could before But most people I know say they didn't want to do it when they were pregnant because they felt big, tired and not in the mood

I can't say I felt up for it during pregnancy really, though I did go through the motions on occasion

Things have improved slightly since DS arrived but i'm still not exactly gagging for it

I didn't have a sex drive when I was pregnant, still haven't got one now

i do understand what it must be like for you, it kills me to see u in the pain ur in most of the time as well. i think where the confusion comes most of the time tho is cos its hard to understand whether ur feeling up for anything or not, cos i dont like to incline anything on u if u dont really want it cos i wouldnt wanna offend you or annoy u, upset u or whateva, and fair enough i might be correct on the odd occassion i know i have been wrong on others as well lol. i dont do it to annoy u its just cos its something weve always done, but obviously now its not quite the same for u which i fully understand. i would never ever think ur going off me either, or theres something wrong cos i know u wud tell me, its just cos i can tend to get mixed signals sometimes lol. sorry if it sounds like im going on everyone, just felt like clearing this up lol love you kimbe xx

(call me a tart, an idiot, soppy or whateva i dont mind lol)

Aww thats cute

u soppy sod

lol i know but thats just me i just wanted u to know why im way i am cos when i try tell u normally u dont seem to understand what im sayin lol but it seems to work on here ( probs cos i might not say it same way in person ) but u understand what im sayin baba? love you xxx

shh then it sounds like were in counciling

lol we aint in councellin at all, dont need anything like that were solid as a rock love u x

oh it's so romantic! I should get my DH on here too.

I feel like I'm always saying "No" to him. It's not that I don't love him, it's just I'm always flat out (if you pardon the pun) with the baby, work, housework, family etc and when it all comes to an end I want some time to myself to relax - watching TV, reading, having a bath - and tbh sex feels like another chore

i was comlpletly off sex with my 1st pregnancy - then right at the end i pounced on him every night.
im 32 weeks now and theres nothing there - hoping i get the energy again soon

Oh you guys are so cute!!

I was the opposite Kimbe, but unfortunately I didn't have any body to take care of that for me . I felt really sexy when I was preg too, probably cuz I had a good excuse to have a belly LOL

Good thing you're gettin used to it now cuz it's worse when you have the baby cuz you're both gonna be soooooo tired all the time

i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo

Hehe

kimbe said:
i dont know if its come back but me an mr joe finally had love last night an it felt great did not hurt at all whooooo

well good, glad to hear it