I am a really argumentative person, and my hubby is as chilled as a chilly thing in a really chilly place. So, one counteracts the other

We don't um really argue at all... we make statements like we're in counselling like, "Just to let you know hon, when you do that, it really irritates me. Love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu." Hehehehehe makes us looks like freaks, eh? We never really discussed this approach, it just gradually developed! We have a peaceful house, except when I'm ranting at the daft mutt or ranting about someone else LOL
