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i feel sick!

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
me and hubby get on brilliantly, but last night about 1am his mobile phone went off and woke me, i always look at it at that time of night incase its urgent. when i looked someone had sent him pic of another woman. i woke him but he just said 'bizarre' and went back to sleep. this morning i asked him about it and all he said was 'oh yeah i had forgotten about that', then his son came in the room so the discussion ended there coz i wont talk about things in front of him unless it concerns him. so ow i'm left with it on my mind all dy till he comes home from work. everytime i think about it, it makes me feel sick Gag .
was it sent to the wrong number or is there more to it Suspect ??


HayleyHayley
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
im not sure hun, it could easily be a mistake!

ask him again when he gets in from work!

or maybe his mates were drunk and winding him up?

do u look through his messages to see if there was anything suspcious!? Kiss

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

Hayley said:

do u look through his messages to see if there was anything suspcious!? Kiss

no. to be honest i have never even thought about him cheating, i have always trusted him and was 99.999% sure he would never cheat, its never even entered my head. this has left me feeling very low. i really dont want to lose my trust for him, i've never trusted anyone like this Crying

RichRich Moderator
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I imagine it's all very innocent, thing with fellas is...we often like to wind each other up by doing stuff like that, keep an open mind with it, don't panic until theres something worth panicing over, was'nt another womnan ringing him, just a picture, just sit down and ask him about it in a non suspicious manner, if he has nothing to hide he can show you the sender of the picture right? it could well be a wrong number, been times at 2am when the phone has rung and some drunk sod on the end of it not knowing who they just phoned...it could be one of his mates has managed to get together with someone and they sent him a picture of the new lady...so, stop winding yourself up about it, not doing any good to your state of mind hun Smile keep us posted though.

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
thanks you guys Kiss lots of wise and comforting words Very happy

Kelly_CaitKelly_Cait
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Thats a lil weird, if its an innocent picture of a another woman, I'd just question him, if it was to happen again then maybe I'd be more concerned. Was the number saved on to his phone? It might have a name or something.

Don't get yourself worked up on it tho, it was prob just one of his mates being immature.

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

Kelly_Cait said:
Was the number saved on to his phone? It might have a name or something.

no hunnie the number wasn't save which just add to the confusion Crazy Suspect

Kelly_CaitKelly_Cait
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

kel said:

Kelly_Cait said:
Was the number saved on to his phone? It might have a name or something.

no hunnie the number wasn't save which just add to the confusion Crazy Suspect


O right, might just be a mate or the wrong number. Hope you find out sooon, so it will put your mind at rest.

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
God you're really good, I'm very firey and I'd have thumped my husband awake and demanded the details there and then. But if the number is not one stored in his phone it is more likely to be innocent. You still deserve an explanation though just to clarify and settle your mind.

BedheadBedhead
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
I bet if the number wasn't saved its just a wrong number. My hubbie gets a text message on every new year saying 'happy new year angel', he's been getting it for years and has no idea who it is from Shocked , these things do happen!

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
thanks you guys Very happy Very happy Love Kiss

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Oh Kiss I agree with what the others have said. It's probably just a prank or a wrong number. I used to get hang ups all the time when I lived with an ex and I thought for sure that it was his other woman calling, even though I knew in my heart he wouldn't have cheated on me but it still puts the doubt in you and it's hard to make that feeling go away sometimes. I hope you have a great night together and it turns out it was just nothing to worry over Kiss

mitchmitch
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
Kiss

last week i recieved two texts from a number i didnt reconise or have in my phone..
the first went hey sexy im up in leeds this week on buisness meetings and could do with your fine sexy booty to wine and dine..text back if interested. Shocked

the second text said dear sir or madame so so sorry for he text i sent before. wrong number sorry dan x x

least i got an apology. but i stress when i get texts from numbers i dont no but its such an easy mistake to make.. hope it turns out to be nothing x x

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

mitch said:
Kiss

last week i recieved two texts from a number i didnt reconise or have in my phone..
the first went hey sexy im up in leeds this week on buisness meetings and could do with your fine sexy booty to wine and dine..text back if interested. Shocked

the second text said dear sir or madame so so sorry for he text i sent before. wrong number sorry dan x x

least i got an apology. but i stress when i get texts from numbers i dont no but its such an easy mistake to make.. hope it turns out to be nothing x x


LMFAO!!! my phone number used to belong to a spanish lady called Layla and she must have been very popular with the gents cuz still 2 years after I've had this number, I get a lot of spanish speaking men calling asking for Layla LOL I just say Nope No Mas

mitchmitch
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

hapydazy said:

mitch said:
Kiss

last week i recieved two texts from a number i didnt reconise or have in my phone..
the first went hey sexy im up in leeds this week on buisness meetings and could do with your fine sexy booty to wine and dine..text back if interested. Shocked

the second text said dear sir or madame so so sorry for he text i sent before. wrong number sorry dan x x

least i got an apology. but i stress when i get texts from numbers i dont no but its such an easy mistake to make.. hope it turns out to be nothing x x


LMFAO!!! my phone number used to belong to a spanish lady called Layla and she must have been very popular with the gents cuz still 2 years after I've had this number, I get a lot of spanish speaking men calling asking for Layla LOL I just say Nope No Mas


lol nice to have male attention though Naughty Wink

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

mitch said:

hapydazy said:

mitch said:
Kiss

last week i recieved two texts from a number i didnt reconise or have in my phone..
the first went hey sexy im up in leeds this week on buisness meetings and could do with your fine sexy booty to wine and dine..text back if interested. Shocked

the second text said dear sir or madame so so sorry for he text i sent before. wrong number sorry dan x x

least i got an apology. but i stress when i get texts from numbers i dont no but its such an easy mistake to make.. hope it turns out to be nothing x x


LMFAO!!! my phone number used to belong to a spanish lady called Layla and she must have been very popular with the gents cuz still 2 years after I've had this number, I get a lot of spanish speaking men calling asking for Layla LOL I just say Nope No Mas


lol nice to have male attention though Naughty Wink


yea, it's always nice to get a little extra male attention huh! LOL

Hopefully Kel, these examples of wrong number stuff will make ya feel better sweety!

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
it has made me feel better hun, thanks to u all foru'r kind words an support!
i have just emailed him at the ofice to see if he knows who she is or who sent it, i wasn't nasty about it just said 'have u had a think bout who the woman is in the pics or who could of sent it to u?', now i await the reply Shocked

hapydazyhapydazy
posted 1 decade 3 years ago

kel said:
it has made me feel better hun, thanks to u all foru'r kind words an support!
i have just emailed him at the ofice to see if he knows who she is or who sent it, i wasn't nasty about it just said 'have u had a think bout who the woman is in the pics or who could of sent it to u?', now i await the reply Shocked


Good, I do hope it turns out to be nothing. I have to say this though, when I was getting upset about the hang ups I drilled my ex BF constantly about it even though he insisted that he had no idea why I got hang ups all the time. I am not usually a jealous or insecure person when it comes to relationships but I was really, really bothered by the calls and in turn drove him mad about it. To this day I really think the calls had nothing to do with him but the distrust that I started having I think had some to do with the demise of our relationship. So, my point being, try to do like you said and ask him calmly about it and then let it go as best you can. I hope that made some sense?

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
well i got a reply
'No i have absolutely no idea who she is, short of calling whoever sent and asking I dont think we will ever know'
so i have tol him to text the number and ask who it is?

kelkel
posted 1 decade 3 years ago
he has text the number but nothing yet.
he did email this to me though

'hey you apart from anything whoever she is she is older than my mum! Not really anyone to be jealous of you loon!
I love you til the end of time and beyond baby xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx'.
made my heart melt Love

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