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Advice needed please...

posted 1 decade 6 years ago
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Okay so I just found out I'm pregnant 2 days ago, and the father hates the idea of the child and wants an abortion. I'm currently undecided on this completely, however i have a lot of support from my family and have considered keeping the child.All I said I wanted from him was to put his name on the birth certificate so my child (if i have it) knows who the father is, and other than that he doesn't have to do anything. Now he's saying he wont even do that and wants some sort of legal thing drawn up to say he's nothing to do with the child, I think mainly he's scared i will try and ask him for money which i have no intention of doing. So I would just like to know where i stand on this, i'd like to put his name on the birth certificate, can i do that without him? Can he make me sign anything to say he's not the father?
I went to the doctor straight after i tested positive and he just smiled said congratulations and asked me to come back in 2 weeks if i want an abortion. Pretty useless to me anyway.
The point is, I'm scared as to what to do now, i dont know where i stand and i'm finding it hard to decide. I just want to do what is right for my baby, but feel the joy of the situation has gone. Any advice is much appreciated.

posted 1 decade 6 years ago
hi hunni i have replied to you other thread x

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posted 1 decade 6 years ago
will move other thread over Smile

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