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Please HELP!!!

noababynoababy
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
Haven't had chance to read all posts thoroughly so sorry if I am repeating anything.

Forget everything else-you said this man makes you feel like &^%*^%*. It isn't going to get better with kids-just worse. The fact that he makes you feel this way and on top of that the fact that you know he is lying to you-jump ship and let him go live with his mum!

Good riddance and better now than later. Why do you feel you deserve this?

GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! The longer it takes you, the harder it will be.

Also I would document what sites he is on, for your own defence and protection if need be....if he is into child porn, I personally would be worried about what he may or may not do with your child when it gets older. He has a sickness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go get counseling by yourself from social services or wherever you can, just have this probelm and his temper and all other problems documented and hun-don't hesotate-kick him the hell out and now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


mrs_pingmrs_ping
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
I agree with everyone else and say you need to get away from this man. He can't be doing anything for your self esteem, and actually you dont love him, he has made you think you do, and that he is the only one that will love you. Trust me i was in a similar relationship,he never cheated on me (that i know of) but he was terribly controlling and loved making me cry..we bought a house together and managed to make me cry the day we moved in...long story. Anyway i felt so low and unattractive that i believed no-one could ever fancy me/love me, so i thought i had got the best and stayed with him. Within a year of moving into our house, it was sold and we moved out.
You are a great person and trust me you will find someone soooo much better. I am now married to the most amazing guy and we have a little one together. Get out, build up your self esteem and start loving yourself, so others can love you and treat you as you should be treated, like a princess.
Good luck and be strong.
xxx Kiss

GTTkelGTTkel
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
I agree with everyone else that he is doing something very wrong. But on top of that in your condition you should be calm and secure and a man like that will never give you the support you need. It may seem hard to split up but the sooner you do it the sooner you can look back and think "thank god". It will be hard and take time;but there are millions of single mums in the world who had to make the safest and best decision for their child and their own happiness. Good luck and please don't cave in,why shouldn't you be happy?

lottielottie
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
Last edited by lottie 1 decade 4 years ago
Please please katielaura xx keep us all up to date with things cause so many of us are thinking of you and care about you and you bumps welfare xx there has been some great advice and hope your OK hun xxx HUGS to you xxx Take care xxx

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 4 years ago

lottie said:
Please please katielaura xx keep us all up to date with things cause so many of you are thinking of you and care about you and you bumps welfare xx there has been some great advice and hope your OK hun xxx HUGS to you xxx Take care xxx


BUMP!!!

lottielottie
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
I said bump in a nice way for meaning being pregnant xx sorry if you didn't like my term I used xx Sad Face xxx

take care xx

sugarsugar Moderator
posted 1 decade 4 years ago

lottie said:
I said bump in a nice way for meaning being pregnant xx sorry if you didn't like my term I used xx Sad Face xxx

take care xx


i think the post was being "bumped" up hun - keeping it at the top for poster to see and reply too Smile

sugarsugar Moderator
posted 1 decade 4 years ago
hun i agree with rob - you dont just come across porn like that and he doesnt have any respect for u!
Not trying to sound too harsh but if he's looking at underage girls on the internet he is a peadofile and im sorry but you wouldnt want ur child to be brought up by one of them would u? plus and this sounds really horrible but its too possible - what if he ssee's ur child as something to look at? and i know u cant see him being a peado just like i couldnt see my partner being one - if i did find teenage girls pics on his pc i would be straight to the police no matter how much i loved him!

candgsmumcandgsmum
posted 1 decade 4 years ago

lottie said:
I said bump in a nice way for meaning being pregnant xx sorry if you didn't like my term I used xx Sad Face xxx

take care xx


Sorry hun I'm meant it as Sugar as explained, I should have been clearer I didn't mean it in a bad way Embarassed xxxx

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