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posted 6 years 4 months ago
Hey everyone. I hope all of you are doing well. I have this friend who has been in a car accident and had to go through hysterectomy. She can't conceive now. It's really depressing for her. Her conditions getting worse every day. She was suggested to go for surrogacy. I know its really a hard decision to make. If you people can share your stories about surrogacy she might build up some hope. I am sure it'll help her a lot. It'll be best if you could also advise her on what she should do. It would mean her and me a lot. She is visiting her doctor regularly though. The good thing is her family is very supportive. I am looking forward to your replies. Thank You

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hey there. I hope you are doing good. This decision is indeed a big one. You should gather all the required information. I would like to share my experience. I was unable to conceive for 7 years. It was a painful time duration. Then my mother advised me to for surrogacy. That was the best decision ever that I made. I made my research. I found a very reliable clinic in Europe, which was feasible too and not costly as well.My experience was amazing. The doctor was very supportive. The other staff very friendly.The procedure was smooth and after 9 months I was holding my baby girl. I can not describe that feeling.It was like she completed my whole existence. I would highly recommend you to go for surrogacy. You will thank me soon hopefully. Best wishes.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
I know that it is hard moment of your life.But you should consult a good doctor.If you want to listen to my personal experience.I will suggest you Surrogacy.I had 3 children with this method.It is such a blessing.Don't lose hope.Your life can change with surrogacy.You can find your lost hopes.Wish you best of luck.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Good to hear that your friend’s family is supportive.This is what a person requires in difficult times. Well, I have no such story that I could share with you but I might share my experience because I guess your friend and I are in the same boat.She is doing pretty good that she is visiting her doctor regularly. That's what I am doing. This is now been added to my daily routine. Even for me, surrogacy is like another opportunity to begin my family.I have noticed as soon as I started discussing surrogacy, some of the mistaken myths and assumptions i observed.As the regulations regarding this treatments vary.All you have to do is make your own perception. And that would lead you to the stage you believe you should be on

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hi Keneth! I hope you and your friend are doing fine. I feel really sorry for your friend.As you mentioned that she had to go through hysterectomy which means she is completely infertile now, unfortunately Sad Face. However, Surrogacy allows infertile couples to become parents when they may not be able to have children otherwise. Surrogacy is the best option for her to have a baby.Many people have had great experiences with it. My sister had to go through the same situation 2 years ago. She was not able to conceive when she was diagnosed with uterine polyps. She was so upset but It was her fate. She chose surrogacy and went to a clinic with her husband. They went there and the doctors provided them with all the facilities and they also provided them with a healthy surrogate. The clinic is reputed one. They have expert staff. She is blessed with a baby girl now And living a happily married life that she deserved. My warm wishes are with you and your friend good luck:).

posted 6 years 2 months ago
Hey everyone. Glad to hear from all of you. I hope you all are doing great. I showed this to my friend. SHe was really happy to see this. It motivated her a lot. It's great that you guys are here to support her. She has finally decided to go for surrogacy. She is fully motivated and is ready. She has started to look for clinics now. She might travel out of her country. I am really excited. need your prayers, please. Thank you. Take care. hoping to hear more support. Much love.

posted 6 years 2 months ago
It is so sad that your friend has to suffer all this. She must be heart broken. Getting pregnant is a dream but losing everything like this is more painful. She really needs to get out of all this. If she has made up her mind for surrogacy when no alternatives are left either then she should consider it really seriously. I know she will find her happiness back. May destiny be merciful to her.

posted 5 years 11 months ago
Sorry to hear that your friend got involved in an accident that led to hysterectomy meaning that she can no longer conceive and give birth. However, all is not lost since advancement in technology has given man options that were not available in yesteryears. It is true that your friend can greatly benefit from surrogacy. It is a simple process that requires her to conduct a reproductive clinic so that they embark on the process. She will be required to provide the documents that proofs that she cannot carry a baby but can undergo stimulation. She will also be required to undergo some analysis in the initial consultations with the doctor. The husband must also be aware of the process since he will be required to donate the sperm. The clinic will start looking for a matching surrogate mother. In most clinics, it takes about two weeks or a month before a matching surrogate mother is found. The intended mother will then undergo stimulation so that the eggs can be retrieved. One or two of the eggs will be fertilized in the lab and the observed for 3-4 days. Meanwhile, the surrogate mother will also undergo stimulation to help her endometrium to grow. If the eggs show signs of development, it means that fertilization took place and so it is ready to be transferred. The embryo will then be transferred to the womb of the surrogate mother. After two weeks, the surrogate mother undergoes hcg test and the results are shared with the intended mother. In some clinics they will be allowed to meet the surrogate mother in the 12th week.

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