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Iam a TTC Mom for past three years. This year I was diagnose

posted 6 years 5 months ago
Iam a TTC Mom for past three years. This year I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure. We went to ivf. Although our first attempt resulted in a MC. The second one ending with no viable embryos. The second round was the worst. We arrived at the Clinic and got to know that there aren’t any embryos to transfer. We were in a state of shock. The ivf drugs which seriously mess up with your hormones. You can’t trust yourself as you are not in a position to take the right decision. My husband wants to go for the third attempt. I am confused and afraid that the result might be same. Please help. Would like to hear some success stories. To lift up my spirits, I need to stay positive

posted 6 years 4 months ago
Hello, dear Shily, I am really sorry about what you are going through. It is really heartbreaking to find out that you cannot enter the pregnancy club. It is difficult to absorb the shock, but it should not disappoint you. If IVF is not working out for you there can be several reasons to this. I think you can try for surrogacy. It has really helped several couples who had lost the hope of becoming the parents.I hope that soon you will find out the right solution.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Sorry, hun, I know how hard is TTC and the emotional burden it brings. I am 40+ and TTC for years but due to my low ovarian reserve with low AMH, the natural conception is unlikely to happen. So I had given up all the hopes. But a year earlier, got to know about surrogacy. I must tell you that I have tried IVF which failed massively thrice. So, yeah there was no hope until now. If you are sure that IVF isn't working at all, then try surrogacy. Try talking to your husband about it, and convince him over to surrogacy. Trust you me, its a miracle for us alike. Saves time and money. I know it is not cheap at all, but the child is worth every penny. There are counties who have reputable clinics with skilled dictors, euqipped with advance ART and at economical prices. Search your options, visit the clinics in order to be sure of their services. I hope you get a decision that leads you to parenthood.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
Hey, Shilly. Miacrrages really break you, the loss is great. I have had three IVF cycles, failed terribly. A few months ago someone recommended me surrogacy. We don't regret it. The journey so far has been very pleasing. The surrogate mother is a perfect match for us. I would advise you to pursue surrogacy. Research on the basics of it, I am sure you won't be disappointed. Your rainbow baby will be here soon.

posted 6 years 3 months ago
I seriously don't want to discourage you from going to the third attempt. This must be purely your decision. But there are so many cases that I heard or were being introduced in a fertility clinic that is just stuck in plenty of cycles. this wait is just not affordable. Too much frustration is being built in intended person. and MC after conceiving is just too much heartbreaking. each thing in this world has a certain point of success but personally, I can't bear all this. I call off this procedure after second cycle failure. I had not much money neither patience to deal with. That's my purely personal opinion I won't force you to do that. But yes you might consider surrogacy as your second option. The choice is yours, stay calm and positive. Things would work out when its there time.

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