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Just feeling so low about this whole fertility thing. Wish I

posted 4 years 2 days ago
Just feeling so low about this whole fertility thing. Wish I wasn’t so helpless

posted 4 years 1 day ago
Hi Shily
I am so sorry to hear that you are so low about the fertility thing. Anyway, you need not to. Modern science and technology have allowed women to conceive and give birth to healthy kids. I think you need to try it. I will recommend that you try the latest assisted reproduction procedure ICSI. Wait a minute I explain what it is all about. It is a procedure that can be used to help a couple conceive if they have a have low sperm motility. What happens is that the woman will be stimulated so that the ovaries can produce an egg. The egg is collected and injected with a single sperm from the partner. It will be observed for two to three days before it is transferred to your womb. If excess embryos were collected, they could be frozen and used in future. You will be required to rest for two weeks before you can be tested for pregnancy. Notice that before the sperm that is collected from your husband is used, it will be examined by an embryologist to determine whether it is suitable for ICSI or not. ICSI does not guarantee that fertilization will take place as soon as the sperm is injected into the egg. This is why it will be observed for three days before it is transferred. If fertilization didn’t take place, the procedure would be repeated. With this procedure, 1 -3 eggs may be transferred to the womb. Men with zero sperm count can have the sperm retrieved surgically. If no sperm is available, the couple can rely on a donor.

posted 3 years 11 months ago
Hi, I can very well understand the situation you are going through. The infertility in women or even in men, makes them extra frustrated and angry. They just can’t accept their destinies and start clinging to blame themselves. You are living in an era where infertility is treatable and getting your own biological baby is possible. I would really suggest you to go for surrogacy or IVF, both of them entirely different procedures and the waiting time is approximately the same. But these two does give hope to parents without children.

posted 3 years 11 months ago
Hi ShillHi Shilly,
I am sorry for the situation you are in my dear. I understand how the fertility ogre can weigh down a person and leave her helpless. However, it is important that you remain positive. You need to look at life from a broader perspective. It should not be limited to children. I know a couple of friends who have children, but it is like they live in hell. It is for this reason that I sometimes tell people to take a step and think. I am not saying that kids are bad, No! They are the treasure we all need and look forward to. However, kids can sometimes become a nightmare and cause you a lot of trouble. So we should always be happy with whatever little the God gives us. Even though, let me say that infertility is no longer a threat the way it used to be. IVF, IUI, and surrogacy are some of the options you can rely on to fight the monster. If you cannot ovulate and produce mature eggs, you can rely on donor egg and still conceive. Doctors will stimulate you to grow your endometrium. The donated egg will be fertilized in the lab using your DH’s sperm and have the resultant embryo transferred into your uterus. Your DH will be the biological father of the child, and you will all be happy parents. So my dear, don’t feel low about fertility. There is a way out. Just go for a checkup and establish the cause of your infertility and leave the rest to the doctors.

posted 3 years 10 months ago
Being hopeless wnt help you. Its just gonna keep making you feel bad. It's gonna get worse every day. There are many people going through the same thing. They fight back to their problems. You should find a solution. There are so many treatments out there to help you.

posted 3 years 10 months ago
Hey there Shily! I am so sorry for your infertility. I know how hard this must be for you. It's really a back-breaking thing to deal with. It breaks a woman mentally and physically. When I heard the news of my infertility. I was devastated. I wanted to end my life. But at that time I was not aware of assisted conception. And it was also too much expensive in my area. So i never ever thought that I will be able to get my treatment. But then I found about Surrogacy. Surrogacy is the best treatment for infertility. It gives you the power to become a mother. The surrogate mother carries the baby for you. The whole procedure is very safe and it's legal too. Many celebrities are going through this treatment to become parents.

posted 3 years 10 months ago
Dear Shily don't feel so low. Everything will be Ok. If you think this way it would be difficult to fight the hardship. No war is won without commitment. Infertility is not something that cannot be dealt with. You have a list of options available. If it is not very complicated, it can be dealt with the medications. Surrogacy and IVF are two other gifts from the medical science. They have resolved the infertility issue of several couples.

posted 3 years 10 months ago
Hey, do not be worried. everything will be fine. You do not have to be sad. try to stay hopeful. you will get it this time. There are so many out there like you. Many have accomplished their goal. you need to stay focused. Keep trying as much as you can. Find a nice fertility center. The doctors should be well known. Get a fertility treatment done. Believe me, your life will be completed. Stay strong my friends. Life works in weird ways. We are all with you.

posted 3 years 10 months ago
I am so sorry to know about you. Don't be disappointed darling. You must know that there are ways to help you. IUI, IVF, and surrogacy etc. will help you to fight this evil. You just have to gather up all your courage. Visit some experience doctor. Get your self thoroughly checked. And try to find which way is the best for you. Lots of love and luck to you. More power and baby dust on your way.

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