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should we go for Surrogacy or Adoption?

cornyhashcornyhash
posted 1 month 4 days ago
Hey guys! I’m Jade from Chile. My husband and I are confused; should we go for Surrogacy or Adoption? We respect the adoption process. However, there are few things that make you feel kinda uncomfortable about it. If it’s not the case with everyone, it’s with me ☹ I really like a child at an orphanage and felt for her too. Still when a friend of mine told me about what can go wrong between you and an adopted child, I am feeling a little reluctant. With Surrogacy, I’ve heard that if you succeed, there’s nothing’s left to worry about. Thanks for your replies!


PatriceBrewePatriceBrewe
posted 3 weeks 4 days ago
Well according to my point of view, surrogacy is the best option. Through this process, you can have your own child from a surrogate mother. At Least the child is your own, from your husband's sperms. You feel more affiliation with him. He is genetically and legally your child. You must go for it, I totally support you. Good luck with everything you do.

dorakaanpdorakaanp
posted 3 weeks 4 days ago
Hi there. How are you? Adoption is a good way to love a deserving child. Surrogacy in Ukraine has created a market now. They take good care of surrogate mothers. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.

RachelJ05RachelJ05
posted 3 weeks 2 days ago
Hi Jade! I don’t see anything wrong with adoption as far as you are sure that you will be fair with the child but what I feel is legal process involved is very long. Surrogacy is also very common these days and many couples who can afford are going for it. depending upon your budget and heal conditions you can decide what is best for you.

Ursula05Ursula05
posted 3 weeks 2 days ago
Great as stated by my purpose for a view, surrogacy will be those best choice. Through this process, you could bring your own tyke starting with An surrogate mother. No less than those tyke may be your own, starting with your husband's sperms. You feel a greater amount alliance for him. He is hereditarily and legitimately your tyke. You must try it, I completely backing you. Beneficial luckiness with All that you would.

AliciaJuarezAliciaJuarez
posted 1 week 6 days ago
Hey Cornyhash! I hope you are doing good! Surrogacy is a much better option for you, adoption is not a bad thing. But in Surrogacy the child is yours in every aspect. No one can steal him from you. And you are also more close to him, because he has your husband's genes. If you can afford Surrogacy then there is no other option better than it. Good luck hon! Don't worry, just go for surrogacy and make your dream come true. Stay Blessed! Much Love!

Katherine12Katherine12
posted 3 days 12 hours ago
While my view may be biased I genuinely feel surrogacy is the better option. I had my own son through surrogacy. This was because I had to have my uterus removed because of complications with cysts. I was very depressed for sometime, however eventually me and my husband decided to have a surrogate child. I genuinely feel it is better than adoption, because the child is biologically yours and you feel more connected. Also, like what happened with me I was constantly in contact with the surrogate mother and present during the birth. so it literally felt like having a child. Only through another woman LOL. Today i have my son with me all because of surrogacy and I guarantee if you find a good clinic and surrogate mom you can have the same happiness I do.

ProgenesisivProgenesisiv
posted 3 days 10 hours ago
Adoption and surrogacy both are the good options. With surrogacy, the child is biologically yours. If you have no financial issues then go for surrogacy.

ameliaamelia
posted 3 days 4 hours ago
Hey Jade, surrogacy and adoption both are good options. It's upto you which one you find the best. I am also in favour of surrogacy. Because in this process you can have your own child from a surrogate mother. That child would be genetically as well as legally yours. Surrogate mother can not claim for that baby. I am telling you all this in much detail. Because i am also facing the same issue. I am facing double infertility. Me and my husband both are infertile. Surrogacy is the only option for us. I have been gathering information about different clinics from last two years. Atleast i have found a clinic that is exactly according to my expectations. Surrogacy results are almost 100%. All the packages are relatively affordable. If you are foreigner then accommodation, transportation and food is totally free there. I had my only one visit there. I am totally satisfied with all the procedure and overall environment. I can also provide you more information if you want.

KathrinejoeKathrinejoe
posted 2 days 6 hours ago
Hey, Jade.Firstly I feel sorry to hear that you can't give birth.But it makes me so glad that you have decided rather than wasting time in depression.
I can relate to your case. I totally understand how frustrating this whole situation must be for you! But the best part is that you are not afraid of infertility anymore. I suggest you go for surrogacy.Because in that case least you will have your own baby. A baby with your husband genes.Think how amazing it would be to hold a baby who has similar ayes like your husband. You will feel more love for your baby. Because he is heartily and genetically your baby.Surrogacy success rate is so high. I personally got my child through surrogacy as in my case that was the only option I am left with.I think you must give it a try. It is a great journey. There are a number of professionals sitting over there for us. They guarantee about the baby. And the surrogate mother is selected after many medical tests.
I hope you will get your problem sort out soon.You must try it, I absolutely strengthening you to go with it. I can assure you that if you find a reputable clinic you can have the same delight as I do. I had visits many clinics. You should decide the clinic after you will completely satisfied with the environment and equipment. I can provide you more knowledge about it if you want. I hope you will figure out soon.Wish you best of luck!

Marie450Marie450
posted 14 hours 27 minutes ago
I always had complications regarding my pregnancy from my first marriage.
Like firstly i have complications of being pregnant.
But i conceived for 3 times but had now luck of having a baby.
Everytime i conceived miscarriages happened and my dream of having a baby vanished.
So i gave up on being getting pregnant again.

I'm 43 years old by now.
Now i'm married for second time and i am starting thinking of having children again.
But from my last experiences regarding pregnancy and its complications i guess it will be very difficult to have baby off my own womb.
So as per latest researches and methods available of having a baby i guess surrogacy is good option to go.
Firstly i contacted many clinics regarding surrogacy and have gathered a lot of information regarding my case and complications.
So now i have asked my husband to go for surrogacy and i persuaded him to have baby of our own from surrogacy method.
But i am worried about different things like my behaviour towards the baby when i know everything.
I know i will raise him as a child of my own but i have many confusions in my mind too.
But as their are no other options left so i am ready to go for surrogacy method.
I guess some of you should be raising baby form this method too.
So please share your experiences with us as we want to learn from your experiences.

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