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should we go for Surrogacy or Adoption?

cornyhashcornyhash
posted 6 months 1 day ago
Hey guys! I’m Jade from Chile. My husband and I are confused; should we go for Surrogacy or Adoption? We respect the adoption process. However, there are few things that make you feel kinda uncomfortable about it. If it’s not the case with everyone, it’s with me ☹ I really like a child at an orphanage and felt for her too. Still when a friend of mine told me about what can go wrong between you and an adopted child, I am feeling a little reluctant. With Surrogacy, I’ve heard that if you succeed, there’s nothing’s left to worry about. Thanks for your replies!


PatriceBrewePatriceBrewe
posted 5 months 3 weeks ago
Well according to my point of view, surrogacy is the best option. Through this process, you can have your own child from a surrogate mother. At Least the child is your own, from your husband's sperms. You feel more affiliation with him. He is genetically and legally your child. You must go for it, I totally support you. Good luck with everything you do.

dorakaanpdorakaanp
posted 5 months 3 weeks ago
Hi there. How are you? Adoption is a good way to love a deserving child. Surrogacy in Ukraine has created a market now. They take good care of surrogate mothers. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.

RachelJ05RachelJ05
posted 5 months 3 weeks ago
Hi Jade! I don’t see anything wrong with adoption as far as you are sure that you will be fair with the child but what I feel is legal process involved is very long. Surrogacy is also very common these days and many couples who can afford are going for it. depending upon your budget and heal conditions you can decide what is best for you.

Ursula05Ursula05
posted 5 months 2 weeks ago
Great as stated by my purpose for a view, surrogacy will be those best choice. Through this process, you could bring your own tyke starting with An surrogate mother. No less than those tyke may be your own, starting with your husband's sperms. You feel a greater amount alliance for him. He is hereditarily and legitimately your tyke. You must try it, I completely backing you. Beneficial luckiness with All that you would.

AliciaJuarezAliciaJuarez
posted 5 months 1 week ago
Hey Cornyhash! I hope you are doing good! Surrogacy is a much better option for you, adoption is not a bad thing. But in Surrogacy the child is yours in every aspect. No one can steal him from you. And you are also more close to him, because he has your husband's genes. If you can afford Surrogacy then there is no other option better than it. Good luck hon! Don't worry, just go for surrogacy and make your dream come true. Stay Blessed! Much Love!

KathrinejoeKathrinejoe
posted 4 months 4 weeks ago
Hey, Jade.Firstly I feel sorry to hear that you can't give birth.But it makes me so glad that you have decided rather than wasting time in depression.
I can relate to your case. I totally understand how frustrating this whole situation must be for you! But the best part is that you are not afraid of infertility anymore. I suggest you go for surrogacy.Because in that case least you will have your own baby. A baby with your husband genes.Think how amazing it would be to hold a baby who has similar ayes like your husband. You will feel more love for your baby. Because he is heartily and genetically your baby.Surrogacy success rate is so high. I personally got my child through surrogacy as in my case that was the only option I am left with.I think you must give it a try. It is a great journey. There are a number of professionals sitting over there for us. They guarantee about the baby. And the surrogate mother is selected after many medical tests.
I hope you will get your problem sort out soon.You must try it, I absolutely strengthening you to go with it. I can assure you that if you find a reputable clinic you can have the same delight as I do. I had visits many clinics. You should decide the clinic after you will completely satisfied with the environment and equipment. I can provide you more knowledge about it if you want. I hope you will figure out soon.Wish you best of luck!

LisaAdamsLisaAdams
posted 4 months 2 weeks ago
I am so sorry for the situation you are going through. If you ask me, I would suggest you go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is the process which allows you to have your child. The child is biologically and legally yours. It has a nice success rate. Moreover, it overcomes the fear which you are having.
There are many clinics to help you in this situation. You must look out for them. They will provide you with the complete information. They provide you with nice facilities. They make sure that the process is friendly and affordable to you. It is the best process to go with.
Wishing you luck and success in future. I hope to hear more from you. Do share with us what you decide to go for.
Fingers crossed and lots of love.

ElizabethjonElizabethjon
posted 4 months 2 weeks ago
Heyya. I hope that you're doing good. Between surrogacy and adoption, I'll suggest you go for the first option. Well In any matter, surrogacy is better than adoption. In adoption, the child is not yours (after all). On the other hand, surrogacy can allow a biological relation of you with your child. In the end, there are no differences at all. I was also so confused about adoption and surrogacy. Truly speaking, It was the worst time of my life. But I chose surrogacy at the end. And it was a wonderful experience. I went to Ukraine for my procedure. I selected a clinic online. It's a good thing that you can do research on different clinics online. It wouldn't be wrong to say that it was the best of all. The clinic provided me safe procedures. I was much relieved after seeing the complete documentations. It's the important thing after all. I had a successful process. I can't explain the feeling I had, when I held my daughter for the first time in my life. I just discussed the whole thing here, to guide you. Many other people will definitely set their direction, after reading this. I hope that you'll choose the best for yourself. Take care of yourself. Much love.

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