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I am pregnant by mistake

martaandymartaandy
posted 5 years 10 months ago
Hello there everyone. I am pregnant by mistake. My boyfriend's condom broke and got me pregnant at this young age. I am really worried now. How could I tell my family and y friends. I am thinking of abortion. What should I do. Please suggest me. I don't know what to do. This is really gross. I don't know what I am doing. help me.


PatriceBrewePatriceBrewe
posted 5 years 10 months ago
Well, abortion is not the solution. You can have many complications in your reproductive system in future if you go for abortion. I know its difficult for you to face the parents and relatives but try to convince them. I don't know what's your age but killing your own child by yourself is really bad. You have done a mistake but now face the world and nourish the baby inside you. I am sure your parents will support you and will not resist for a long time.

dorakaanpdorakaanp
posted 5 years 10 months ago
Hi there. Please don't panic. Do your family knows about your boyfriend or not? If yes, then you should tell them with love. If no, then go for adoption or get married to your boyfriend. Getting married is the best option. Abortion won't be hidden from parents BTW. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.

RachelJ05RachelJ05
posted 5 years 10 months ago
I am sorry to hear what you are going through. You didn’t mention how many weeks you are pregnant? As after a certain stage, it’s not safe to go for abortion as it can be harmful to you as well. I would suggest you take the courage to share this with your mom, as she is the one who can guide you in the best possible way.

Ursula05Ursula05
posted 5 years 10 months ago
Well, abortion will be not the result. You could have Numerous difficulties with your conceptive framework in future On you try for abortion. I recognize its troublesome for you will face those guardians and relatives yet all the attempt will persuade them. I don't realize what's your Agdistis Be that slaughtering your identity or youngster by yourself will be generally terrible. You need to complete a misstep Anyhow currently face the reality Also sustain the baby inside you. I am indeed your folks will backing you, What's more, won't stand up for quite a while.

jasm098jasm098
posted 5 years 9 months ago
Hi there, tough situation for you. but abortion is not the solution because as you said you are young.in this age it's not good.I knew it's difficult to face your parents and relatives too. but be strong you have done the mistake and you are pregnant now.I knew that your parents are angry because it's not easy to bear up.but on another hand, they will support you.Hope things going alright soon for you.best wishes!!!

neananeana
posted 5 years 7 months ago
Hi there,
I'm very sorry for you. You can see it as a change but I think it is also your choice if you want to have an abortion. It doesn't concern any others here! Talk to your boyfriend and I also hope he and your family are supportive!
Every women has a right for abortion!

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