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I've opted for an IVF

sashawilsonsashawilson
posted 1 week 2 days ago
Hey all. I hope all the ladies out there must be doing fine. A lot of love from my side first! Well, I just have happened to share thing little feeling I had. I really didn't feel nice at this scene today. As my sister just got pregnant! Everyone was happy there. But, I really feel ashamed of myself. I was ashamed of being jealous and secondly, that I am such a useless person. I'm a woman and I can't even reproduce...I'm really in an awful situation. I don't know what to do. I've opted for an IVF. But, I'm still so depressed about my own situation...It really feels bad!


Diana1998Diana1998
posted 1 week 1 day ago
Hi, sashawilson,
It is sad that you cannot conceive and bear children like other women. However, this is not a good reason for you to feel sad and ashamed of yourself. There are many women out there who find themselves in the same situation, but they do not despair the way you are doing. You need to encourage yourself and remain positive that things will be ok. I know plenty of women who have benefited from IVF and IUI, and I believe it is a matter of getting to the best facility, and you will be assisted. Depending on the nature of your problem, your doctor may consider other options such as surrogacy. What matters here is that you get assisted and bear a child like other women in around you. Just remain positive and prayerful. I am sure you will soon become a happy mother and lead a happy life.

jessparkerjessparker
posted 5 days 11 hours ago
HELLO DEAR . First of all many congratulations to your sister. You can feel jealous honey i know its natural. But don't think as if this is the end. If you are opting for IVF then you need to stay positive. You are definitely not a useless women. I see you as super strong woman. Just believe in yourself. Remember good things take time to happen. But its always worth it in the end. Wish you all the best xx

emiliaemilia
posted 3 days 23 hours ago
Hey sasha! Please know that theres nothing to be embarrassed about how you feel. Its somewhat natural. A woman might be envious of something that she too deserves but doesn't have yet. Please go a little easy on yourself and know that its alright to feel the way you do. Not being fertile doesn't make you any less of a woman. Its just that we all have our own timings for such things. You need not compare yourself with your sister or anyone. Instead, try to stay hopeful about your treatment. IVF is a good option in this case. Just stay positive about it. Look at your situation as an opportunity to grow and learn. Be happy for your sister , you'll have somebody to guide you through when your time comes. Also, stay mindful of the fact that stress can hinder your chances to get pregnant. Please do not stress yourself out as it may interfere with your treatment. Depression and hopelessness can be overcome with mindful meditation. So try that. Keep seeing your specialist regularly and stay positive. Thats very important. All the best with your journey ahead. Believe you me honey, your time will come as well. Good luck!

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