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posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hey guys! I hope you all are doing well enough. I am Ashley from NY. I work as a general dentist in a recognised clinic. I was diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes in a very young age and I was counselled that I am infertile and can go for no fertility treatments. Despite knowing about my reproductive issue, my best friend Jacob still married me because he knew that we will surely find a way out. No matter how beautiful your life goes on with your partner, you always need a little one to make that bond stronger. We did not choose adoption since both of our families are against it. Do we still have any ray of hope? Is there still room for my wishes? I need suggestions please.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hi Ashbrown, I hope you are fine. I really felt upset when I read that you are infertile. I can understand how tough it is to accept that you cannot reproduce. Being a mother is one of the best feelings in this world. Nevertheless, many women like us have to face this issue. I was really sad after I read you were infertile. However, I am glad to know that your best friend accepted you even after knowing about your infertility. I must say that we need more people like him in this world. Coming to point, there is a definitely a way out. You can go for surrogacy procedure. Surrogacy is a better option than adoption. Surrogacy lets you have your own biological child. Talk to your husband about it. I am sure he will agree. I wish you best of luck. I hope you become a mother soon.

posted 6 years 9 months ago
Hey dear, sorry to know about your situation but I think you can go for IVF if you consult a good doctor! As one of my knowns had a tubal ligation and she went for the IVF process and had a baby! There is another kind of procedure too, tubal surgery, which can help you get pregnant! And if the doctor refuses to both of these then you can always go for adoption or surrogacy! I would really suggest you to consult a good doctor first Smile

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hey Ash! I can totally understand the pain you have been going through. Fighting with infertility is not easy. As a woman I know what being deprived of a child feels. When you see people of your age having the time of their lives with their toddlers it really pricks from the inside. I have always told my husband that when ever we get of rid our financial crises we will plan for a baby. Finally when we got stable I had withdrawn my pills. Years passed by and I still couldn't concieve. I was forced to see a doctor. When I got the results I was shattered to see them. Who knew that I was barren. I was suffering from PCOs. It was beyond repair and my body can't concieve ever. They were chronic in nature. I would have been rescued if I got them diagnosed earlier. I went in to severe depression. But then I got to know about a clinic. It helped me alot. They provided me with a surrogacy package. It had all the necessities. I think you should also think about it. I really had a marvellous experience.

posted 6 years 8 months ago
Hi Ashley, I hope you are doing fine. I really felt bad after reading your post. It made me sad me a lot that you are suffering from a fatal disease at such a young age. Your best friend is so kind that he married you even after knowing your infertility issues. I would not recommend you to go for adoption may be because of my personal bad experience. You can go for surrogacy instead. Surrogacy procedure will help you to have your own biological baby. One should never stop wishing so do not worry and try for surrogacy treatment. I am sure it will be helpful in your case.

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